my str8 gym crush is “killing me”

[HunkReinolds]

I have a massive crush on this straight guy in my gym, and I’ve been discussing this issue with some members in other related threads, but I decided to create a separate thread for this matter since it’s escalating really quick (you guys gave me the courage to engage lol).

I’ll be posting here what have happened so far and any new updates as well. I really appreciate any advices and support of people who have been in this kinds of situation before.

ok so here we go.

 

[HunkReinolds]

As we were leaving the gym, he suggested we carpooled to the bar, so we’d save some gas. And it was perfect cause he was driving his BMW and I really wanted to ride it and check it out. We talked about it for most of the drive. He just had the car interior detailed so it looked really nice.

As we were almost getting to the bar, I kept thinking about the pinching, how that had been an amazing move from him, and how that caught me so off guard. I wanted to do the same, something that would surprise him, but still not that eager to the point it would get awkward. I was sitting right next to him, so I could easily get a clear shot of his legs and even his crotch. As I tried to stare a bit to see if he’d notice, I realized he was fucking freeballing. Idk how I missed this, cause it’s one of my fetishes. I guess I wasn’t paying attention as he was getting dressed.

So that was when that dose of courage hit me hard. As we were pulling up to this parking lot, I pretended I had something to ask about the buttons in the steering wheel and then I stoped and said laughing “wait a minute, are u going commando?” and then I tickled his obvious dick line with my finger, like in a playful way. FUCK. ME. His face, I can’t even describe it. He gave me this look, straight into my eyes, his face completely serious. Next thing I knew we were fucking kissing, like hard. It was all so intense and blurry.

To think about it, we were both wanting it so bad. I could tell this by how intense the making out was. I’m so glad his car windows are tinted

long story short. We never made it to the bar. I just told him to drive up to the last story of the parking lot, cause it was probably gonna be empty, and it was. So we hooked up right there. In his fucking car. man, I still can’t believe it!

Since I haven’t mentioned this thread to him yet (I’m planning to!), I don’t want to get into much detail of how it all was without his consent. I’ll just say we ended up on the back seat making out for almost an hour, hands all over each other the whole time. As we were kissing, he couldn’t keep his hands off my ass. he kept squeezing and fingering me, it was amazing! And then I had to blow him. His dick, my oh my. He’s defined a grower. It was all very intense, and his moans are still echoing in my head (I’m getting hard just by writing about it lol)

As we were driving back, I also asked to jerked him off cause it’s something I’ve have been seen a lot when I’m looking at porn, so I wanted to do it. It was awesome, cause he lasted a long time!

I don’t know what is going to happen next. I really like him and today things escalated hard to another level. I’m just trying to enjoy the moment and have fun with him. We agreed to meet again tonight. He’s coming over in a few hours, hopefully I’ll get him to spend the night!

I’ll keep you guys posted!!

 

[HunkReinolds]

Hold on to something, this is going to be a bumpy update.

I wanted to do something to surprise him like he did to me last week in the hotel. He’s been complaining frequently about how stressed he’s been with some work related shit, so yesterday I had this idea of booking a day for him on this really fancy spa (he had mentioned before how much he likes doing this from time to time, and it was perfect since he was going to have the day off).

anyways, I took him there and he enjoyed it a lot. His surprised face was really cute when he found out, he was very thankful. The place was really nice and expensive, so I guess it was an amazing experience. once he got back from the spa, I could see how relaxed he was, It was actually funny lol. When I asked him how it was, he started telling me about all this kinds of massages they offer there, then he mentioned this specific one he got from a male professional. He told me back on his “straight” days, he had been massaged several times by men but he felt absolutely no tension, sexwise. Then he mentioned how it was different this time. He said the masseur was a very attractive and strong man who seemed to be in his late 20s, and how it was kinda weird feeling this for the first time.

At first my mind was like “why are you telling me this?”, it kinda freaked me out, I gotta say. But then as the conversation continued, he started talking about his taste in men, and asking what I usually admire in a man as well. This definitely took me by surprise. He felt very comfortable talking about this with me, I could feel that. That was a very nice conversation we had. We both got to share a lot of stuff about ourselves. Then at some point, the subject turned to porn. He mentioned how it was when he first started browsing thru gay porn, who are his favorite porn stars and onlyfans accounts. I took the opportunity to share some of my interests as well.

sooo, everything was fine at that point. But then he suddenly said “do you know this website, lpsg?” I almost passed out. Of course this was about to happen, I mean almost every man who are interested in man knows about LPSG! Anyways, I did my best to continue talking as naturally as possible and hear what he was saying. He was talking about how it’s easy to find stuff about almost every onlyfans account in LSPG, and how amazing the website is, with the all the forums and support from guys going thru the same stuff as him. He said he spent almost an entire day browsing thru the website when he found out about it a couple of days ago.

anyways. We were there, having this most amazing, blunt, honest conversation. He felt comfortable sharing some very deep intimate stuff with me, things he probably never let out before. I just felt I had to be honest as well. it just felt right, you know? I don't know where I got courage from, but I ended up telling him everything about this thread (better for him to find out from me than stumbling on this thread out of the sudden, that was my thought).

Long story short, I’m in love with this man. He’s incredible in every single way, and he keeps surprising me. Of course he got very confused once I finished talking, so I gave him some time to process it all, I left him by himself for an entire hour so he could read the whole thread.

Once I got back home, he wasn’t in the living room. I kinda panicked, thinking he’d took off or something. Then I went to my bedroom and there he was. His phone was laying on the bed and he just stared at me for a couple of seconds. I couldn’t say anything, I completely freaked out. But then he just walked towards me and kissed me. That moment. That’s definitely something I’ll never forget. The way he was gently touching me was different from any other interaction we ever had before.

I still can’t believe it. I remember he said “it was like taking a trip inside your mind” or something, and “being able to see things from your point of view”. Then he mentioned how all the updates reminded him of how it was exciting in the beginning when we used to be just gym buddies, more than a month ago. then he kept thanking me for the opportunity to have this all registered somehow. Anyways. As if I wasn’t already at cloud nine, he just said “oh, and don’t worry about us, I’m not going anywhere“.

I don’t know what the future holds for me and him, but I know it’s something amazing. I’m not afraid to say this again, I’m completely in love with that man!! Now he finally knows about all of this and I couldn’t be happier. I asked him if the fact that the thread was public bothered him and he said no. He even encouraged me to keep posting, for the sake of making it a record for us and also for the support of you guys, as long as it keeps our identities private, of course. And who knows, maybe someday he feels like posting something here too (if you’re reading this, no pressure babe!)

 

[HunkReinolds]

I’m so glad I didn’t mention the thread, tysm for the advice, guys! Now I can think clearly, it made so much sense not to show him this. At least not rn. It could definitely freak him out.

soooooo I’ll just update you on what happened last night and what we’ve talked about since the last post.

To answer a few of your questions, yesterday when we first hooked up in the parking lot, it was kinda clunky and all over the place, since we were so horny and waiting so much for that moment. It’s important to mention we were in a public place, even tho no one else was there. But yeah, I blew him and later jerked him off, both times he came very intensely, but he didn’t do anything to me at that moment. That’s why we decided to meet up and spend the night, it had to be done yesterday!

he got here by the end of the night. He was so fucking handsome, all dressed up in black, his hair looked amazing, it was all so good! From the moment I closed the door, we simply couldn’t keep our hands off each other. We started hardcore making out, (he’s a very good kisser). After a few minutes, I can only remember we had moved to the couch and were both shirtless, and I started undoing his pants. Then he just stopped me and said he was feeling a bit anxious about what was going to happen.

I knew what the problem was. He had never been a bottom. I asked him and he confirmed, and I could see in his eyes he was worried about my reaction. That moment was incredible. Not only because I felt he was very honest with me, but also I could see his eyes from a very up close. I felt he just wanted that to be an amazing experience for us. I asked him if he had been with a guy, like ever. He told me it had happened a really long time ago, while he was in college. Basically he fucked a guy once at a drunken party and that was it. He told me he was experiencing and after all, he realized hooking up with men didn’t make sense for him at that moment.

me myself, I definitely wouldn’t label me as a bottom. From my last experience with a guy, I actually didn’t do it that many times, I was usually the top. So I told him it was absolutely no pressure. I knew what he was feeling, I’ve been there (side note, Idk if that happens to every guy who at some point of their adult lives, realizes they are bisexual. But for me, it was very confusing and conflicting. At first I didn’t wanted to be fucked. I felt if I did, I would be less of a man. I guess that’s just the toxic masculinity in our society talking).

Anyways, I just wanted to be intimate with him, no matter what would happen. After that intense moment, we just continued to make out and I pulled down his pants and started to suck him. Blowjobs clearly are his thing, he moans a lot, it’s amazing. After a while I couldn’t help not to kiss him again, he had that beautiful horned up face, it was killing me! I ended up kissing and licking every inch of his chest, armpits and abs. Then I asked him to suck me and to my surprise he looked really eager to do that. OH MY. That moment will be imprinted on my mind forever. It was so fucking hot. I have this kind of sensitive spot in the back of the head of my dick, and he noticed that. Fuck me!

At some point I just stopped him and asked him to fuck me. long story short, it was so fucking good. He knew what he was doing. His expression, his body sweating and dripping all over me, the grunting and moaning. I don't think I’ll ever forget that. At some point I remember he kept whispering in my ear “I can’t believe I’m fucking you”. I completely lost myself then. After he came, he sucked to orgasm. I straight up think I convulsed for like a whole minute. It was very intense.

after we cooled down, all we could do for a few minutes was just laugh and smile at each other. It was really cute

(I’m gonna do another post cause this got a bit long)

 

[HunkReinolds]

It’s been a while since the last update, so here we go! Lots of exciting things have happened, including our first “trip” together.

he’s spending most nights at my place. (I think his situation with his “girlfriend/wife” is getting close to an end, although he doesn’t mention it often, also I don’t ask). Since we’ve been having a lot of time for ourselves, I feel like maybe some feelings are coming up, at least from my end. But I’m trying not to focus on that, and keep having a good time with him, cause it’s been a lot of fun!

As I mentioned in the last post, he really enjoyed the rimming/prostate play. We did it another 2 times after that and it was incredible, both for him and for me. I’m realizing I really like doing it. In my last relationship with my ex-girlfriend, we used to do it a lot. Her most intense orgasms happened while I was eating her, so I guess it became one of my things. Anyways, watching him climb to that level of arousal (all the moaning and squirming) while eating his ass makes me very horny.

About our first trip, this weekend he wanted to go away to the other side of the state, so we could try being together for the first time in public, without running the risk of bumping into anyone we know. And how nice that was! This gave us the opportunity to go on a road trip, I got to drive his car, also being able to spontaneously kiss him in public was awesome. We stayed at this very fancy hotel by the beach, it was such a good time. Also being able to have sex in a neutral space, not being afraid of getting loud lol, was very interesting. It definitely made him get looser, he was very cheeky and aggressive.

Anyways, so yesterday while we were in our hotel room, as we were fooling around, something really nice happened. We were just in our underwear, kissing in bed, I was laying on my back and he was on top of me. As I put my arms up, he strongly grabbed my wrists and held them in that position, kinda like restraining me. Then he sat on my crotch and started rolling his ass on top of my junk, like in a circular motion. That was fire. Not only because it was obviously very hot, also because I still didn’t get the chance to fuck him yet. But that showed he’s getting close to accepting the thought of being a bottom.

Also at some point he wanted to try rimming me. Oh my, it was so fucking good! The feeling of him grabbing me by the back of my knees and holding my legs up while eating me, wow, sweet new ways of pleasure! And of course also the fucking, it never gets old, my man can get wild!

Anyways, as I mentioned in the beginning, I might be getting feelings. But I don’t care I feel like this is natural at this point. I just know I want him! Let’s see how things go I’ll keep you posted!

 

[HunkReinolds]

It's been so long, and so much has happened since the last time I've posted. We were debating if we should keep posting stuff, for our privacy sake cause some weird things have happened in this matter, which should not be mentioned. But aaaaanyways, but what can I say... Redfield and I, we are more than alive.

What we have is deep. I can still say this even after all this months, we cannot stay away from each other, period. We have more than a simple physical and emotional connection. We connect as men. We are way too deep into each other, pun not intended. He knows what to do to me in every aspect of my life, and vice versa. I seriously don't know how I spent more than 30 years of my life without knowing this feeling.

As a quick update, we're still keeping our relationship as a secret to our families, except for a small group of friends. Funny story, one of our friends actually found out about us while walking on us kissing a few days ago. He was pretty shocked at first but very supportive.

We've been living together since our last update, nothing has changed. Emotionally speaking, I got to know a lot more about Red as a person, and this made me love him even more, if that's possible.

Physically... oh the physical. Again, what can I say, my body aches for every single inch of his body. Laying my eyes on him sets my whole self on fire, and Red knows it. He knows EXACTLY what to do to me. This keeps things very intense and alive for us. I don't know how long this could last, but we are in this moment of our lives where sex happens every single day, we can't help it, and honestly we shouldn't lol. We are living this to the fullest.

Anyways that's it. Oh, we wanted to say this again: Thanks a lot for all the support on this thread and from those who reached out to us. We also would like to thank those who are respecting our privacy and rooting for me and Red. Talk soon!

 

[HunkReinolds]

Wanted to share an update on how things are going between us!

we’ve been hooking up almost every day, and he often stays over during the night. A nice thing he suggested was we should exchange our underwear sometimes so we could wear each other’s. That was genius and very hot, I get mad horny when I remember I’m wearing his boxers during the day.

Also, our connection has grown a lot, and we can see that clearly during sex. That whole speech of “me not being able to achieve a prostate orgasm” is long gone by now - he hits me in the right spot every single time, to the point I completely surrender and cum without touching my dick, at all. That feeling is amazing, I have to say. I stay in it for about 5 minutes, barely being able to move, and he looks so proud of himself every time (It’s incredible how intimacy can make us reach things we never experienced before). This have been making him extremely curious. I still haven’t got the chance to fuck him, so last night I decided to try something new.

After making out a lot, I told him to just lay back and relax. I started kissing his whole body and then proceeded with a long rimming session. he enjoyed that a lot. I was guiding him thru the process, trying to make him completely relaxed. It was incredible, as I was slowly teasing him and telling him to relax his butt muscles, he was just agreeing with me with his eyes closed and trying to catch his breath. That was so hot to watch!

After that, I decided to play a bit with his prostate, while doing a very slow handjob. After a while, his prostate got very swollen, it was impossible to miss it with my finger. He was definitely enjoying that.

When I realized he was about to cum, I stopped with the handjob and continued fingering his prostate. This stalled him for a bit. But after a few minutes he completely caved. He was breathing very heavily and moaning very loud, almost like crying. Each thrust of my finger against his prostate made him squirm like crazy (I got a bit jealous to be honest. I’ve tried this for so long and he got it on his first attempt lol). When I noticed he was at the peak of his orgasm, I started sucking his cock. Fuck, he completely exploded. I was definitely sure he just had his first full body prostate orgasm, cause he looked completely shocked. The way he was arching his back and grabbing his balls was absolutely indescribable. And knowing I had got to do that to him, oh wow!

After he cooled down, he couldn’t believe it. All I could say was “I fucking told you!!” It was very funny long story short, he kept saying how every men should experience this, and how unfair it was that most men would never know how it feels. he said he definitely wanna try it again. YAY!

anyways, I’ll keep you guys updated if anything new comes up! Ty all

 

[HunkReinolds]

Member who suggested the jockstrap, you’re a genius!

So as I mentioned, we would workout together today. Everything went fine, we talked a lot while exercising. Then we went to the locker room. As we were undressing, I made sure I could see him through the mirror to get his reaction looking at my jockstrap. When I got a clear shot, I completely bent over (butt facing him) and removed my shorts. Then I pretended I was stretching for a bit, to stay longer in that bent position. My oh my, his reaction. He was definitely took by surprise. After that he didn’t talk much, but kept staring A LOT. He definitely liked the strap.

After showering, I asked what he’d be doing for the rest of the day, cause I was planning to go get some lunch in a restaurant. He unfortunately said he had plans. But we agreed to work out together tomorrow.

Bottom line. He is definitely curious, after today I have absolutely no doubt. Also, the way he checked my ass out felt really really good. I can’t stress how hot that men is. To have a men who I admire and have a massive crush looking at me like that was amazing. It’s been so long since I felt like this, I have to be honest. I already busted 2 times today just reliving the situation.

 

[HunkReinolds]

FINALLY, FUCK YEAH!!!!

Ok so bare with me, there’s a lot of things to tell you guys. I’m trying to organize my thoughts as I’m writing this post cause I’m still at cloud nine. First thing, yes, it happened, we hooked up! I still can’t fucking believe it! And you are all to blame! LOL just kidding

soooo I’ll try to walk you guys through everything that happened. here we go.

Since he had the day off, we agreed to meet at the gym a bit earlier, so we’d have time to go to the bar I suggested (which is a bit far from where we live). As we met, he greeted me the same way as yesterday, a hug with one of his arms and a quick slap on my ass. I was expecting this, so I kept it cool and just acted natural.

So we were working out just fine, same as usual, talking a lot. He seemed really interested in every topic I brought up, like we talked about our diets, video games, even work. He kept asking a lot of questions about everything I was saying. It was really nice of him to be that interested. At some point, his buddy from yesterday showed up almost at the end of our workout, so I paid attention to how he was going to greet his friend, maybe it would be the same way he did to me. But no, it was just a fist bump. Yay!

After the workout, we headed to the locker room, and again I was wearing a jock strap, cause he obviously like it. We undressed and as usual, he stared a lot. I did it too, cause why not? And then to my surprise he said out of nowhere: “ so you threw away all your boxers?” That got me. He was making sure I knew he noticed the jockstrap. I probably blushed cause that’s me lol, and then I laughed out loud. That comment had been both so sexy and funny, and it caught me so off guard! So i just said “I might as well do that” and he laughed too, raising his eyebrows like he was agreeing to that.

Then we headed to the showers. As I was walking in front of him (I was still wearing the jockstrap to tease), he went ahead and made another move that completely shocked me. He fucking pinched my ass. I turned like instantly cause there were ppl around, then he laughed out loud and said “I’m sorry! I mean the ass was right there, I had to!!” His face was so funny, he was laughing so hard to the point he was almost crying. At that point I had no doubt it was game on. I just stared at him still completely shocked and all I could do was laugh too. My heart was racing very very fast, and I felt I was getting a boner. So I rushed to the shower.

Once we got to the booths, there were a lot of guys there, it was very chaotic. Idk what happened to me cause I just picked the first available booth and closed the curtains, without even checking if he had picked the booth across me. Side note, to think about how I reacted makes me really mad at myself. I hate to be this kind of person who shuts off when something unexpected happens. I fucking hate it! I could’ve reacted so much better to that.

Anyways, I just finished showering and went to the lockers. As I was getting dressed and waiting for him, I kept thinking he probably found the pinching had been a bad idea, cause of my reaction. So when he got back, I tried to be as breezy and natural as I could, and thank god he was just fine, acting natural too. It was a relief cause for a few seconds I had this feeling I screwed everything up.

(I’m going to do another post cause this got a bit long lol)

 

[RedfieldBlue]

^^Per the above post: there will be no pictures @leanbeef and @Grapplr16. However, as you two are so keen to see pictures, feel free to share pictures of yourselves here: Show Off

hello all, im “the crush” (guess thats the better term to use it) but you can call me redfield. im not good with words like hunkreinolds but id like to say thanks to all of you who supported him and me for the past days. also thx @dreamer20 for making this clear, we wont be posting anything dat would put our identities at risk for now. again we really appreciate the support and comprehension. see ya

 

[HunkReinolds]

I probably should say last night was the most intense and deep emotional experience of my life. At this point I can’t lie to myself anymore, I have feelings for him, and I know this is fast and reckless but I understand it now. For the past weeks I completely gave in to him.

first thing that is important to mention, he and his girlfriend (now ex) are no more. She left their house and they officially ended things, so he’s been living by himself for the past 3 days. The moment it was over he called me and I could feel it in his voice it had been a very awkward and hard thing to do. He asked if I could come over and all I could do was drop everything I had planned and rush to his place to be with him.

Being in his house for the first time on those circumstances was definitely not ideal. it was all a mess. But I felt like I had to be there for him. The most awkward thing was that at some point she had to come back to pick up a few things, and I was there. I don’t think she knows about us, cause he didn’t tell her and as far as it goes, I was there just as a friend. But yeah seeing her was definitely weird.

Anyways, after that day, I noticed how different he’s been. That relationship was definitely not doing him any good, and now he was free from all of that. And this reflected on what we have between us. He’s been overall way more present, and not just because he’s officially single, but I feel like he really wants to spend some more time with me. Realizing this has been so… I can’t put in words. I really like him, I love having him around and spending time with him, getting to know everything about him… this has been incredible, it feels like a dream. And I feel this feeling is mutual.

since the day she left, we’ve been together every night. I saw how fragile he was so I invited him to spend the nights at my place, and I really wanted to give him some space to cool things down, so I definitely did not plan to have sex until he was past the moment. But it all happened naturally. We hooked up at that same night, and the day after.

But yesterday… it was definitely something else. I met him at the gym and after spending a few minutes together I could see he had this whole new look on his face and a new attitude. He was officially over it. He was happy! We talked a lot about it on our way back to his place, he shared some really deep stuff about how he had been feeling for the past years and how those things are slowly healing since it all ended. That talk we had was amazing.

After we had dinner, it was a bit late so we decided to watch a movie and then go to bed. As we were in bed talking, we eventually started fooling around, but it was different. At start, he was kissing me very gently and softly, it was definitely not aggressive and heavy as we usual. We were having this really intense moments where we would just stop for a few seconds and deeply gaze into each other’s eyes. That was a really nice connection, and it was building me up as crazy.

At some point it got a bit more aggressive as we usually do. But I realized he often would just stop and stare at me for a few seconds, while heavily breathing. Eventually I started sucking and fingering him. After a while I could see he was getting pretty horny so I stopped and went back to fooling around so he could then fuck me. But then at some point he was just doing this thing he knows it gets me going, he was hugging me really hard, locking his arms on my back, and then he whispered in my ear “I want you to fuck me”.

all I know is that I couldn’t last long. I wish I could’ve. Seeing his face, completely surrendered to me, he strongly holding me by my arms as I fucked him, oh wow… that orgasm had so many things attached to it, I completely exploded. Then I continued fingering him until he came. It was all so blurry, all I could do after that was continuously kiss him. It was then I officially accepted I have feelings for him.

I thought about it all night long, and I think I wont be able to to keep this from him. Eventually it’s gonna come up. I also want to know what last night meant to him. After all the sex, we didn’t talk much. That rush of feelings got me really freaked out and I completely shut down as I usually do (again, I hate this. And I saw he noticed it).

Anyways, I just wanted to say that venting this to all of you helps me a lot. Thanks again guys, for all the help, for everything. (I guess I’m just emotional, sorry lol)

I’ll keep you guys posted!

 

[HunkReinolds]

A lot of things have happened since my last update, so here we go!

we’ve been spending a lot of time together lately, doing stuff we both like and finding out new things as well. He recently told me he used to surf while he was younger so I asked him to teach me and it’s been going great. I even got my own surfboard and I feel like this can really become one of my hobbies! Also I love being a part of something he’s excited about. Things like this are making us really close, and I couldn’t ask for anything more.

last week I had this work thing where I had to go out of town for a few days to go to this conference. This was the first time we would be apart for so long since we first hooked up. It kinda bummed me out but I couldn’t get out of it, so I ended up going. He kept texting me for the whole time I was there, asking how it was, that was really nice. And then at the last day, he did this thing that really surprised me. At some point during the evening, while I was already in my hotel room, he sent me this very hot pic of himself, it was really sexy (and extremely unexpected, he’d never done that before). Then a few minutes later, the front desk called my room saying I had something delivered for me. I thought it was something related to my job so I went there to pick it up. As I was heading to the lobby, walking down this very long hallway, he showed up out of nowhere at the other end of the hall. For a second, I couldn’t believe he was there. Seeing him like that, out of the blue, was incredible! And how sneaky of him, to send me that pic and then showing up moments later, he was teasing me hard and he knew what he was doing! We ended up having the most amazing night

In the next morning we drove back to town together, our second road trip! As he was driving, he did this really hot thing, where he got my hand and put it over his crotch. That was fire! Idk what happens to us, when we’re in the car together we get really horned up lol

Anyway, after every day I spend with him I’ve been realizing there’s no reason for me to feel insecure like I’ve mentioned in the last post. He’s here for the same reason as I am, we love being with each other and thats what matters for now. Him showing up like that in my hotel just proved how much he’s enjoying all of this too.

Side note, and I’ve mention this before, I’ve been realizing that being in a relationship with a guy instead of a girl definitely has its perks. We share a lot of the same interests, we absolutely love working out together, it’s something that we really look forward every day! Also, we go through the same kinds of stuff and this makes everything more exciting and interesting. it just clicks, you know? at least it’s what I feel!

Anyways, I’d like to mention (again) how thankful I am for everyone who takes their time to post something nice here. I really appreciate all the support, you’re all amazing!!

 

[HunkReinolds]

So this is what happened today. Same as yesterday, he came a little later than I expected. I stalled a bit and waited for him to go to the locker. As he was going I went in first to take a shower and see if he’d do the same as yesterday: pick the shower booth across me. And he did. Also like yesterday, curtains opened.

When I realized he left them opened, I pretended I had to get something from my bag which was hanging right outside my booth. So I opened my curtains and looked straight to his face. He nodded as usual and then courage strucked me and I asked: “should I leave mine opened too?” His face was priceless, he laughed a bit, it was funny. Idk what came to me, I never had the courage to do anything like this. I’m feeling really good rn, seriously.

So there we were, curtains opened. I tried to do what some of you suggested, so played a bit with my dick, but I don’t think he looked much.

After the shower we talked a bit and it was very normal, he even took a little longer to get dressed, it was amazing. And the locker room was empty so it made me really comfortable to talk to him freely. I didn’t want to force any sensitive topic cause I kinda had my share of bravery for the day. But I did ask what would be his workout for tomorrow, so we could do our workouts together and he agreed.

Tomorrow I’ll see how things go and I’ll try to invite him to grab a beer or something, there are a few bars close to the gym. Wish me luck!

 

[HunkReinolds]

I feel like something nice is about to happen!

So today was finally the day I started to see him making clearer moves. I got to the gym a bit later than him, and as I left the locker room to drop my stuff, I saw him hanging out with 2 of his gym buddies. As I was walking towards the group, he saw me and I could tell his face changed instantly. He had this smile that could make me do anything he’d ask me to lol. I politely greeted his buddies with a fist bump, and as I was turning to do the same with him, he kinda gave me this semi hug with one of his arms, and to my surprise he gave me a quick slap on the butt. My oh my. I still don’t know how I kept it cool, that was really hot. My heart raced so much I felt I was having a heart attack lol. I did my best to act like nothing special had happened, and focused all my strength not to get a boner.

After that we started working out and one of his buddies had a few similar exercises on his program, so the guy hanged with us for the most part. While we were talking, my crush mentioned he got a new set of tires for his BMW, and then he started to tell the guy some of the stuff we have been discussing about a few upgrades I’ve been doing on my car. I found that really nice. He remembered a lot of details I told him, like he was really paying attention to our conversations.

Once we finished our workout, I realized his buddy would probably be with us at the same time in the locker rooms, so I stalled for a bit, saying I’d want to do some cardio. Luckily his friend wasn’t in the mood, so he went ahead to the locker room, and my crush stayed with me.

After we were finished, we hit the locker room. I was wearing a jockstrap today too, and once again, he kept staring. A lot. Maybe butts are his thing too. While we were walking towards the shower, he didn’t wear his towel. That was a first, and it was really hot. During showers he made sure we kept talking all the time, and as usual, curtains fully opened. I caught a few glimpses of him staring at my junk. I stared a lot too, no fucks given.

As we were leaving, I was about to ask him again if he had plans for the night. But to my surprise he told me tomorrow is going to be his day off, so he asked if I wanted to grab a beer. I obviously said heck yes.

So I have this gut feeling something is going to happen tomorrow. There were some very clear signs he’s making a move. The way he greeted me, the slap on the butt, him practically asking me on a date. I’m very nervous lol, cause my last relationship was with my ex-girlfriend and it lasted almost 2 years, so its been a while since I’ve been with a guy.

I’d appreciate any suggestions and encouragement you guys could give me, cause I don’t want to mess this up! Also, please wish me luck!

 

[HunkReinolds]

Today was definitely an exciting day, guys! We worked out together for the whole time, and this gave me more opportunities to engage in conversation. I found out he’s a car enthusiast just like me, we talked a lot about it. He just bought his new BMW so he wouldn’t shut up about it, it was fun!

I tried to be a little bit more obvious while checking him out, just to see his reaction. For about 2 times he was talking to me and I was just agreeing while straight up looking at his crotch. He probably noticed, it was very obvious. Also, I got to check his ass from very up close while he was doing prone leg curls. He’s ass is amaaazing, oof! (I’m completely an ass guy)

After our workout, he had to leave without taking a shower. At first I found that weird and thought maybe the staring had been too much, but for my surprise he said we should workout together again tomorrow. He even asked what would be my workout program. I took the opportunity to ask for his number so I could text him and see what time we should meet tomorrow. Win!

So the bottom line, I had a lot of fun today! It was refreshing having a gym buddy and talking about stuff that I like with someone I admire. I feel like we can really be friends! Like a week ago, I would never thought this would happen!

 

[HunkReinolds]

Thanks for all the support we’ve been receiving for the past few weeks!

just wanted to update you guys on whats been happening with me and redfield. Basically we’ve decided to move in together. We still have both of your houses, but we’ve been living in his place. So you can say things are quite serious lol

oh and one exciting thing that happened, sneaky redfield surprised me a few days ago in the locker room. Out of the sudden, he showed up wearing a jockstrap. That was soooo nostalgic and so unexpected since he never did it before (despite me begging him, cause there’s this guy who keeps giving him this looks, and I suggested he teased him while in the locker) anyways, that day we got so horny we ended up fooling around in the gym showers for the first time (it was pretty empty) and after that I blew him. That was such a rush!!!

 

[HunkReinolds]

Ok so that’s what have been happening for the past few days.

Now what happened today is what made me decide to create a thread to talk about this.

So I was working out today and my crush showed up a bit later than he usually does. Since we’ve been very chill lately and often have conversations, I decided to linger during my workout so we could be in the locker room at the same time.

About 1 hour later, I noticed he was about to finish his workout, so I went to the locker room and headed to the showers (I was already late for work). I was showering a bit quick so I would catch him undressing before taking a shower, and then out of the sudden he showed up and picked the shower booth right across mine. I could see he made sure it was the booth in front of mine cause I saw him staring over the curtains to see if it was me. Again, call me crazy but yeah, I saw it.

After drying myself, I opened my shower curtains and there he was, completely naked showering with his curtains opened in front of me. He never did that. I know that for sure cause I’ve tried to see him showering so many times. Of course I panicked and didn’t take the opportunity to keep looking. I finished drying off and went to my locker. After he got out of the shower, I was already fully dressed and heading out for work, so I just said bye and that was it.

I really don’t know if that meant something. Did it? I’m a very introvert person so I haven’t had many experiences flirting with ppl. And he is straight, I know that for sure. He talked about his wife before. But yeah, he decided not to close his curtains.

 

[HunkReinolds]

Just got back home after spending the most amazing day with him! Unfortunately he has to work very early tomorrow so we couldn’t spend the night, but thats ok. At least it gives me some time to update you all on what happened since our last time (I was dying to tell you guys lol)

so basically he texted me earlier today asking if everything was ok. I was right, he noticed how awkward I had reacted after our hook up on Friday night. I saw this as an opportunity to have a straight conversation with him (I realize how soon this might seem, but I couldn’t help it. I had been thinking A LOT about my feelings yesterday, and it was killing me to the point the only way was telling him). I didn’t want to have that kind of conversation over the phone so I asked if we could meet so we could talk. He agreed so I went to his place.

Bottom line: the way I reacted had him thinking somehow he had screwed up his first time. Man, that made me hate myself so much. The look on his face once I got there was killing me, he looked very worried. Before I even began talking, he went ahead and started apologizing for Friday night, thinking he had done something wrong. I was so glad I decided to meet him and talk, otherwise he would‘ve kept feeling bad about himself.

All I could do was stop him and just spill everything I had to say: how Friday night was the most amazing night of my life, how I feel our connection got deeper over the past few weeks, how much I love having him around, and how I feel about myself when I’m with him, that he made me a better man. The way he breathed heavily as I was hugging him, kind of like a relief, was everything I could ask for lol. then he started telling me how he agreed with everything I told him, how he feels the same and how much of a relief all that was. He even thanked me for being there for him throughout his break up. Somebody pinch me!

after that spent the whole afternoon cleaning his BMW and installing this new device he got to boost the car performance. Then we took it for a test drive, it was really nice. After that we grabbed some dinner and went back to his place to fool around for a bit.

I still can’t believe this is all happening! Again, it looks like a dream. Am I really ungrateful and just dumb to be extremely afraid of losing all of this? I feel like I have no reason to be insecure towards him, specially after today. But still I get this fear of losing it all. is it normal? Has any of you ever felt this? Help!

 

[yuptheyrefake]

Leave the man alone.

You're building a narrative that confirms everything that you want it to, and translating situations to mean what you want them to mean.

Then you're taking advice from strangers who don't know you and don't give a shit about your well-being about what to do next - and they're always gonna say "escalate" because it's a fucking big dick site full of fantasy and fantasists.

Obsessions are unhealthy. They end well for nobody.

So even if he genuinely indulging your peaking and staring and staying late to see him, and being late for work on the off-chance that you see his dick (again) - that too is a red flag. You're ignoring things that are important in your real life to focus on a fantasy.

Just stop. Really

 

[HunkReinolds]

Last night was definitely one of the best nights of my life, for several reasons. He stayed over so we had plenty of time for us. And not just for sex, I felt he really wanted to spend some time with me. At some point after a few hours together, he just asked with the sweetest face ever “can I stay over?”. It was so cute lol

the sex. I can definitely say it was one of my top 5 experiences ever. We started as usual, making out a lot. He suggested we listened to this playlist of very sexy songs and oh my, that was genius! (Now that I got to listen to some of the songs again, they remind me so much of him and the amazing time we were having). I could notice he was a little bit more aggressive in his moves this time. while we were kissing, he kept hugging me very hard, and as his hands were sliding through my body, they were very heavy and strong. that was building me up like crazy. Also the heavily breathing was setting us on fire. To the point when we actually started fucking, we were completely soaked. He ended up fucking me from behind this time, and it was so much better for me. The feeling of his chest and torso touching my back, and he whispering some dirty talk to my ear, oh wow!

Side note, I’ve been trying to work on my prostate for a very long time, cause I’m fascinated about having a prostate orgasm, and I had never been able to. But last night I think it happened a little bit, cause what I felt while I was cumming wasn’t normal. My whole body took a hit it was crazy, and I was barely touching my cock. Idk, maybe I was so horned up to the point my orgasm felt stronger. Anyways, it was intense. Im so glad I didn’t bring the subject “wanna try to bottom?”, otherwise I would’ve probably missed that orgasm. Also, he noticed how my whole body was reacting and how it took me a few minutes to come back to earth. That gave me a great opportunity to mention how bottoming could be pleasurable. Who knows, maybe we can try it soon.

After the fooling around, we talked about a lot of stuff, I got to know him so much better. He told me about his family, his childhood, how he was raised. It was nice discovering all this stuff about him, I feel like our friendship got way stronger. Then we talked a lot about our situation. He asked me so many questions about my sexuality, how it was when I found out I was bi, how long has it been, he even asked me if I ever had sex with a guy and a girl at the same time. I guess he’s trying to figure some stuff out about himself, and being able to help him somehow is really cool.

He also told me about the day he realized he maybe wanted to try something with a guy again. It happened while he was in a club with his friends a few months ago, and he noticed this very good looking guy staring at him. It was funny cause he mentioned how back then he thought it was normal finding a guy attractive, but to quote his words “this guy was something else”. And the thought of such a handsome men being interested in him sparked something.

anyways. Waking up to him was incredible. This morning we also agreed to keep our thing casual and a secret (tbh being sneaky actually makes it way more interesting for me). Also this got me the opportunity to think that rn is not the best time for me to openly come out as bi, I definitely some stuff to figure out.

So today I ended up working a double shift so I had to skip gym, but we agreed to meet up tomorrow for our workout and maybe some beer after (we still haven’t got to the bar yet lol)