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I don’t generally follow exchanges like these, but you’ve got a great attitude about it all - your storytelling, how well you ask for and accept input from others, and your positive energy about it all. He might be in the same situation as you and is also nervous about next steps. Best of luck on your “date”!
 

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I don’t generally follow exchanges like these, but you’ve got a great attitude about it all - your storytelling, how well you ask for and accept input from others, and your positive energy about it all. He might be in the same situation as you and is also nervous about next steps. Best of luck on your “date”!
Tysm for this comment, really.

As I mentioned to another user via DM, I’ve been receiving some negative feedback from some ppl about this, and it kinda bummed me out. But to read something like this reminds me that I’m not doing anything wrong, and I’m not exposing anyone. I’m just discussing something that might be interesting to some of you and also looking for advice and feedbacks, cause I’m a little bit rusty lol

Thanks for the support buddy!
 

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Tysm for this comment, really.

As I mentioned to another user via DM, I’ve been receiving some negative feedback from some ppl about this, and it kinda bummed me out. But to read something like this reminds me that I’m not doing anything wrong, and I’m not exposing anyone. I’m just discussing something that might be interesting to some of you and also looking for advice and feedbacks, cause I’m a little bit rusty lol

Thanks for the support buddy!
We all have been, or will be in a similar situation. The ones who see this in a negative light, are just projecting their own insecurities.

So, ignore them and carry on (…and keep us updated!)
 

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Tysm for this comment, really.

As I mentioned to another user via DM, I’ve been receiving some negative feedback from some ppl about this, and it kinda bummed me out. But to read something like this reminds me that I’m not doing anything wrong, and I’m not exposing anyone. I’m just discussing something that might be interesting to some of you and also looking for advice and feedbacks, cause I’m a little bit rusty lol

Thanks for the support buddy!
I’m pulling for you buddy!
 
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FINALLY, FUCK YEAH!!!!

Ok so bare with me, there’s a lot of things to tell you guys. I’m trying to organize my thoughts as I’m writing this post cause I’m still at cloud nine. First thing, yes, it happened, we hooked up! I still can’t fucking believe it! And you are all to blame! LOL :p just kidding

soooo I’ll try to walk you guys through everything that happened. here we go.

Since he had the day off, we agreed to meet at the gym a bit earlier, so we’d have time to go to the bar I suggested (which is a bit far from where we live). As we met, he greeted me the same way as yesterday, a hug with one of his arms and a quick slap on my ass. I was expecting this, so I kept it cool and just acted natural.

So we were working out just fine, same as usual, talking a lot. He seemed really interested in every topic I brought up, like we talked about our diets, video games, even work. He kept asking a lot of questions about everything I was saying. It was really nice of him to be that interested. At some point, his buddy from yesterday showed up almost at the end of our workout, so I paid attention to how he was going to greet his friend, maybe it would be the same way he did to me. But no, it was just a fist bump. Yay!

After the workout, we headed to the locker room, and again I was wearing a jock strap, cause he obviously like it. We undressed and as usual, he stared a lot. I did it too, cause why not? And then to my surprise he said out of nowhere: “ so you threw away all your boxers?” That got me. He was making sure I knew he noticed the jockstrap. I probably blushed cause that’s me lol, and then I laughed out loud. That comment had been both so sexy and funny, and it caught me so off guard! So i just said “I might as well do that” and he laughed too, raising his eyebrows like he was agreeing to that.

Then we headed to the showers. As I was walking in front of him (I was still wearing the jockstrap to tease), he went ahead and made another move that completely shocked me. He fucking pinched my ass. I turned like instantly cause there were ppl around, then he laughed out loud and said “I’m sorry! I mean the ass was right there, I had to!!” His face was so funny, he was laughing so hard to the point he was almost crying. At that point I had no doubt it was game on. I just stared at him still completely shocked and all I could do was laugh too. My heart was racing very very fast, and I felt I was getting a boner. So I rushed to the shower.

Once we got to the booths, there were a lot of guys there, it was very chaotic. Idk what happened to me cause I just picked the first available booth and closed the curtains, without even checking if he had picked the booth across me. Side note, to think about how I reacted makes me really mad at myself. I hate to be this kind of person who shuts off when something unexpected happens. I fucking hate it! I could’ve reacted so much better to that.

Anyways, I just finished showering and went to the lockers. As I was getting dressed and waiting for him, I kept thinking he probably found the pinching had been a bad idea, cause of my reaction. So when he got back, I tried to be as breezy and natural as I could, and thank god he was just fine, acting natural too. It was a relief cause for a few seconds I had this feeling I screwed everything up.

(I’m going to do another post cause this got a bit long lol)
 

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As we were leaving the gym, he suggested we carpooled to the bar, so we’d save some gas. And it was perfect cause he was driving his BMW and I really wanted to ride it and check it out. We talked about it for most of the drive. He just had the car interior detailed so it looked really nice.

As we were almost getting to the bar, I kept thinking about the pinching, how that had been an amazing move from him, and how that caught me so off guard. I wanted to do the same, something that would surprise him, but still not that eager to the point it would get awkward. I was sitting right next to him, so I could easily get a clear shot of his legs and even his crotch. As I tried to stare a bit to see if he’d notice, I realized he was fucking freeballing. Idk how I missed this, cause it’s one of my fetishes. I guess I wasn’t paying attention as he was getting dressed.

So that was when that dose of courage hit me hard. As we were pulling up to this parking lot, I pretended I had something to ask about the buttons in the steering wheel and then I stoped and said laughing “wait a minute, are u going commando?” and then I tickled his obvious dick line with my finger, like in a playful way. FUCK. ME. His face, I can’t even describe it. He gave me this look, straight into my eyes, his face completely serious. Next thing I knew we were fucking kissing, like hard. It was all so intense and blurry.

To think about it, we were both wanting it so bad. I could tell this by how intense the making out was. I’m so glad his car windows are tinted :joy:

long story short. We never made it to the bar. I just told him to drive up to the last story of the parking lot, cause it was probably gonna be empty, and it was. So we hooked up right there. In his fucking car. man, I still can’t believe it!

Since I haven’t mentioned this thread to him yet (I’m planning to!), I don’t want to get into much detail of how it all was without his consent. I’ll just say we ended up on the back seat making out for almost an hour, hands all over each other the whole time. As we were kissing, he couldn’t keep his hands off my ass. he kept squeezing and fingering me, it was amazing! And then I had to blow him. His dick, my oh my. He’s defined a grower. It was all very intense, and his moans are still echoing in my head (I’m getting hard just by writing about it lol)

As we were driving back, I also asked to jerked him off cause it’s something I’ve have been seen a lot when I’m looking at porn, so I wanted to do it. It was awesome, cause he lasted a long time!

I don’t know what is going to happen next. I really like him and today things escalated hard to another level. I’m just trying to enjoy the moment and have fun with him. We agreed to meet again tonight. He’s coming over in a few hours, hopefully I’ll get him to spend the night!

I’ll keep you guys posted!!
 

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As we were leaving the gym, he suggested we carpooled to the bar, so we’d save some gas. And it was perfect cause he was driving his BMW and I really wanted to ride it and check it out. We talked about it for most of the drive. He just had the car interior detailed so it looked really nice.

As we were almost getting to the bar, I kept thinking about the pinching, how that had been an amazing move from him, and how that caught me so off guard. I wanted to do the same, something that would surprise him, but still not that eager to the point it would get awkward. I was sitting right next to him, so I could easily get a clear shot of his legs and even his crotch. As I tried to stare a bit to see if he’d notice, I realized he was fucking freeballing. Idk how I missed this, cause it’s one of my fetishes. I guess I wasn’t paying attention as he was getting dressed.

So that was when that dose of courage hit me hard. As we were pulling up to this parking lot, I pretended I had something to ask about the buttons in the steering wheel and then I stoped and said laughing “wait a minute, are u going commando?” and then I tickled his obvious dick line with my finger, like in a playful way. FUCK. ME. His face, I can’t even describe it. He gave me this look, straight into my eyes, his face completely serious. Next thing I knew we were fucking kissing, like hard. It was all so intense and blurry.

To think about it, we were both wanting it so bad. I could tell this by how intense the making out was. I’m so glad his car windows are tinted :joy:

long story short. We never made it to the bar. I just told him to drive up to the last story of the parking lot, cause it was probably gonna be empty, and it was. So we hooked up right there. In his fucking car. man, I still can’t believe it!

Since I haven’t mentioned this thread to him yet (I’m planning to!), I don’t want to get into much detail of how it all was without his consent. I’ll just say we ended up on the back seat making out for almost an hour, hands all over each other the whole time. As we were kissing, he couldn’t keep his hands off my ass. he kept squeezing and fingering me, it was amazing! And then I had to blow him. His dick, my oh my. He’s defined a grower. It was all very intense, and his moans are still echoing in my head (I’m getting hard just by writing about it lol)

As we were driving back, I also asked to jerked him off cause it’s something I’ve have been seen a lot when I’m looking at porn, so I wanted to do it. It was awesome, cause he lasted a long time!

I don’t know what is going to happen next. I really like him and today things escalated hard to another level. I’m just trying to enjoy the moment and have fun with him. We agreed to meet again tonight. He’s coming over in a few hours, hopefully I’ll get him to spend the night!

I’ll keep you guys posted!!
so did he cum? Did you cum? How was he?
 

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As we were leaving the gym, he suggested we carpooled to the bar, so we’d save some gas. And it was perfect cause he was driving his BMW and I really wanted to ride it and check it out. We talked about it for most of the drive. He just had the car interior detailed so it looked really nice.

As we were almost getting to the bar, I kept thinking about the pinching, how that had been an amazing move from him, and how that caught me so off guard. I wanted to do the same, something that would surprise him, but still not that eager to the point it would get awkward. I was sitting right next to him, so I could easily get a clear shot of his legs and even his crotch. As I tried to stare a bit to see if he’d notice, I realized he was fucking freeballing. Idk how I missed this, cause it’s one of my fetishes. I guess I wasn’t paying attention as he was getting dressed.

So that was when that dose of courage hit me hard. As we were pulling up to this parking lot, I pretended I had something to ask about the buttons in the steering wheel and then I stoped and said laughing “wait a minute, are u going commando?” and then I tickled his obvious dick line with my finger, like in a playful way. FUCK. ME. His face, I can’t even describe it. He gave me this look, straight into my eyes, his face completely serious. Next thing I knew we were fucking kissing, like hard. It was all so intense and blurry.

To think about it, we were both wanting it so bad. I could tell this by how intense the making out was. I’m so glad his car windows are tinted :joy:

long story short. We never made it to the bar. I just told him to drive up to the last story of the parking lot, cause it was probably gonna be empty, and it was. So we hooked up right there. In his fucking car. man, I still can’t believe it!

Since I haven’t mentioned this thread to him yet (I’m planning to!), I don’t want to get into much detail of how it all was without his consent. I’ll just say we ended up on the back seat making out for almost an hour, hands all over each other the whole time. As we were kissing, he couldn’t keep his hands off my ass. he kept squeezing and fingering me, it was amazing! And then I had to blow him. His dick, my oh my. He’s defined a grower. It was all very intense, and his moans are still echoing in my head (I’m getting hard just by writing about it lol)

As we were driving back, I also asked to jerked him off cause it’s something I’ve have been seen a lot when I’m looking at porn, so I wanted to do it. It was awesome, cause he lasted a long time!

I don’t know what is going to happen next. I really like him and today things escalated hard to another level. I’m just trying to enjoy the moment and have fun with him. We agreed to meet again tonight. He’s coming over in a few hours, hopefully I’ll get him to spend the night!

I’ll keep you guys posted!!
Wow! that was SO amazing! Congrats! All the intensity reminds me of my first encounters with my partner of 8 years. That’s how it begins ;)

I’d say that he gave you lots of signs to make a calculated move. And now that it is confirmed, it doesn’t seem to me such a surprise that he’s into men.

Another sweet side is that those systemic homophobes and party-poopers, who tried to discourage and judge you, are going to have to eat their words now. Yesss!

Anyway, enjoy your moment. We’ll be looking forward to the next update,

Cheers!
 

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Since I haven’t mentioned this thread to him yet (I’m planning to!), I don’t want to get into much detail of how it all was without his consent...I’ll keep you guys posted!!

I personally wouldn't tell him anything about this thread as I feel you might self-sabotage the progress you have made so far. You have only sought advice here from your fellow members in confidence - that's all. Continue to be cautious. Only share what you want to share. Keep your identities anonymous as this is a public forum. Congratulations on hitting it off with your gym crush. :emoji_thumbsup::emoji_thumbsup:
 
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AHHH Freaking outttt!
So happy for you, truly congrats!!
Excited to hear more on the update and hoping all continues to go well! :blush:
 
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Glad things worked out and curious to hear what happened last night!

I don't think its a good idea to bring up this thread - as dreamer said you used this thread for advice in confidence... Bringing it up to him might freak him out if he's DL and has a wife etc...