I'm interested in checking out NY Jacks, but I have some anxiety about the vibe. I'm an older guy, very average body (5'9" and 155), hung well enough (for the real world i usually stack up well, but not a horse)... I'm also not a naturalist or nudist at all (so walking around naked will take some courage). So I'm wondering if I'll be pleasantly surprised or leave depressed feeling that guys there are thinking i'm one of the "creepy old guys" (and i do notice that a lot of gay men tend to equate older with "creepy"). If people are really picky and want to curate for some casual JO with only guys with abs under 35, aren't Grindr or Sniffies, etc. easier for that? Just wonder if any guys over 40 feel out of place at NY Jacks?