Has having a big dick made you confident?

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When I was growing up in the early 80's there wasnt the access to porn like there is today so like many above I didnt know that I had a big dick right away. The only one I could compare to was a monster cock bigger than mine. So when the realization hit me then my confidence started to grow more and more with each hookup.
 

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I still doubt myself about if my cock is actually big or not and am a bit more shy because of that. I’ve been working on some exercises to get out of that mindset. I post where I do here because that’s where I was told I should post by an ex partner
 
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I still doubt myself about if my cock is actually big or not and am a bit more shy because of that. I’ve been working on some exercises to get out of that mindset. I post where I do here because that’s where I was told I should post by an ex partner
Amazing that you don't realize just how big you are. Others don't comment??
 

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Has having a big dick made you confident? I would imagine having a big dick would make someone confident overall in all areas of life: socially, romantically, etc. It must be a big time ego boost, maybe having a big dick has made you arrogant?

Or is it the opposite? Maybe a big one has made you more insecure in some ways. I would imagine the pros outweigh the cons though. Thoughts?
I not just about having a big dick. It's about the overall package. I work out 4 - 5 times a week to stay lean and muscular. Also I maintain proper grooming. And so on and so forth.

A well put together man is what really attracts eyeballs.
 

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If anyone, and I do mean anyone comes off as arrogant, I don't care how big his dick is. Major turn off. I would think most guys are ok with what they have. Even guys that I would consider big wish they had more and I'm like WTF man, genes have already been generous for you. And the rest may be hot as well. How a man carries himself is my biggest turn on. Confident is good, masculine just being themself, etc.
100% agree, how a man carries himself is a HUGE turn on and arrogance is a huge turnoff. I have seen captivatingly handsome guys with small cocks, who because of their magnetic, sweet natured personalities could pull more pussy or cock than any arrogant hung stud. Hung studs can pull a lot too, but how anyone presents themselves can win over arrogance and size any time.
 

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Has having a big dick made you confident? I would imagine having a big dick would make someone confident overall in all areas of life: socially, romantically, etc. It must be a big time ego boost, maybe having a big dick has made you arrogant?

Or is it the opposite? Maybe a big one has made you more insecure in some ways. I would imagine the pros outweigh the cons though. Thoughts?
The latter, and IMHO they don't. Depends on the personality I guess.
 

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Oh totally. I'm a shower. I love to show it off. It has totally made me more confident about myself and I'm sure helped inflate my ego a bit. I'm not a very shy person and I'm sure finding out fairly young helped develop that.
 
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