I didn’t know I was above average til college, when sitting in a photography discussion group, chairs in a circle, one of the girls joked about my strained khakis and how I could earn some extra cash being a photo model perhaps- I was so confused and thought she was insulting me at first- my friend took me aside and said, “the women whisper behind your back every time you show them demos in the computer lab, especially your button fly 501’s…”