I'm about 6 in but it's skinny like the rest of me. My cousin and I were hanging out downstairs in my basement one time and got on the subject. He is about 5 years older. He was being curious about my size and showed me the outline of his through his jeans. We eventually turned on some porn and starting masturbating under our clothes. When he finally took it out, it was huge. Like the size of a water bottle. That's when I knew I was outsized in a major way lol.
When and how did you learn that your cock was big/small? (18+)
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Not me but a guy that lived in the dorm room next to me when I was in college. I only knew him for one semester but I will never forget him. His dick soft was as big as most guys on hard, my guess would be about 6-7 inches and thick. At that time there were open showers so no hiding. We all made comments about wishing ours was as big as his. He said no we didn’t because it’s more of a curse. He said he was 18 years old and still a virgin because no girl would let him put it in. He said it was cool when they were feeling it and grinding on it through his clothes but as soon as he pulled it out they would say no way. They would offer to give him a blowjob and he said that was usually not that good because they could only fit the head in their mouths. He said he knew he was big when his older brother took him to the store to buy boxers to replace the briefs (I’m telling my age now) his mother bought. His brother told him he was getting to big for those draws and he need some that had more room for him to grow. He figured out later big wasn't about his age and grow didn’t mean height.
The day I discovered that I actually have a small/below average cock was when I saw my cousin’s dick when he was taking shower, he’s a couple months younger than me but he has a huge donkey cock, girthy and impressively big. (he’s 7,5, I’m 6)
Sometimes he mocks me for my size but in a friendly way.
Sometimes he mocks me for my size but in a friendly way.
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I'm happy with your parents' choice for what it is worth.
I guess I kinda knew my dick was big whenever I would get naked with other guy. The only guy who was larger than me was my buddy Joel...he was huge. girls always like my big dick too.
I'm definitely a grower and not a show'r. I always thought maybe average or so. It wasn't until I was with my wife that she told me I was above average. I'm 7 x 5.75. People talked about the toilet paper test and I couldn't fit my head in it. My wife jacked me off with 2 hands and there was still dick hanging out. I've only had a few lovers. One I was her second lover. She never commented about my size. She just would squirm away when we did it. The other was a virgin so there wasn't a bar for her to judge. The other was more experienced than me.
I found out when the internet was invented.
Surprisingly, I have never had a woman tell me that I am large. I get reactions. What I mead by reactions is facial expressions, gasps, making a sound when I go balls deep, etc. I am 7x6 so I know that I am not average. I am a grower so I have had a few women tell me they were surprised by how much it grows when erect. It's fun getting reactions.
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I am the same size as you - get told I have a fat cock almost all the time.
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I'm kinda on an island by myself as I don't see myself as being big. But when I actually take the time to look at my soft penis in the mirror or look down at my erection, or photos of my penis, I have a different view. And everyone I've been with has told me it was of an impressive size. So does that mean I should see myself as having a big cock or a cock that just has a nice size to it? I was actually surprised to see that some sex toys I don't fit in. I bought one that I was really happy and excited to try out and I wound up breaking it the day I used it because I was too big and shoving myself in it wasn't helping. The problem was the motor wasn't as advertised so with my penis inside, it barely moved. So perhaps I am bigger than I realized. Check my media postings to see my size.
A gym locker room and communal showers is where I got my "education". When you are nude and exposed to dozens of others, it is clear who is big, small, and average. In my experience, there are one helluva lot more average dicks than there are either big or small.
I'm personally very average - 6" fully erect and cut at birth. I've never wished for being bigger but certainly am glad that I'm not tiny as I do think that men with tiny penises might feel awkward in locker rooms or showers.
My philosophy is this: enjoy what you have and make the best of it. Big, small, average - we can all have fun
I'm personally very average - 6" fully erect and cut at birth. I've never wished for being bigger but certainly am glad that I'm not tiny as I do think that men with tiny penises might feel awkward in locker rooms or showers.
My philosophy is this: enjoy what you have and make the best of it. Big, small, average - we can all have fun
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Never thought about size much until I shared a girl with a friend. Not in a 3-way rather he messed around with her for a while and then she came to me. She was an international student. She said he was much bigger. Later discover it was length. When I started my bisexual adventure I discovered I was actually above average and quit feeling inadequate.
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Agree. Ensure everyone is always as satisfied as possible and has fun.
I like your attitude but that's not quite reality unfortunately.
Some men are so small (ie micropenis) that sex is impossible, so no "fun to be had". That's why we need to address that very real problem and stop gaslighting that small penis is actually ok. More research into correcting it should be done. I also wish people would stop treating men who are legitimately small and desire to be bigger like a joke, like the way that penis enlargement is viewed even though there are many with legit grievances. Just my two cents.
One girl coincidentally became disinterested in sex as soon as she seen it. All my friends were bigger. Wife said I wasn't " that small" , pretty much indicating I was small but I guess not super small, several members here told me I was small, have been asked if I use small size condoms, etc, etc....
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Just looked at your amazing cock pics. You’re pulling our leg.
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If you weren’t straight I would offer to service your perfect large cock 24/7.
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I don't consider me especially big at 18cm and about 16 around. I used to travel for vacation and been many times to massage, mostly with a guy. It sometimes happen when they massage down there that I start to grow and the guy say wow, or big big! One guy I know since some years when he first put his hand down my underwear look me in the eye and say OH! We go to room, because he wanted to play with it. After he used to call me anaconda. He had a very nice cock too, but smaller.
Once I sit in a bar where I know the lady owner. Once se told me "that girl would like to go with you". OK, we talked a bit and agree to go to room. She was young, but LEGAL! When she played with me and I started to grow, she said it's soo big! I prepared her and she was very wet and ready. Then when I was to enter her she said easy, it's so big. She was so tight and wet but I easily slide in. She was nice and tight and felt good and not long before she started to moan and soon she orgasmed and then I couldn't hold back and shoot a big load in her. Another time in a "no sex" massage the guy made it good and I couldn't help but get hard. He looked at me and whisper "you have so nice big cock" and then surprised me by giving me a happy ending!
Maybe I'm just over average, but nothing special I think. Maybe too many details, hope OK?
Once I sit in a bar where I know the lady owner. Once se told me "that girl would like to go with you". OK, we talked a bit and agree to go to room. She was young, but LEGAL! When she played with me and I started to grow, she said it's soo big! I prepared her and she was very wet and ready. Then when I was to enter her she said easy, it's so big. She was so tight and wet but I easily slide in. She was nice and tight and felt good and not long before she started to moan and soon she orgasmed and then I couldn't hold back and shoot a big load in her. Another time in a "no sex" massage the guy made it good and I couldn't help but get hard. He looked at me and whisper "you have so nice big cock" and then surprised me by giving me a happy ending!
Maybe I'm just over average, but nothing special I think. Maybe too many details, hope OK?
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