Shower vs. grower

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I've read many discussions about showers and growers. All the studies say that when erect there is no difference in length between a shower and grower. I actually think all these studies want all men, especially growers, to feel good about their dick size. I'm not buying it. If one man has a one inch flaccid dick and the man next to him has a five inch flaccid dick I'm convinced that the man with the five inch flaccid dick will have a much bigger erection than the man with the one inch flaccid dick. Anyone back me up on my theory?
No, that's totally false. The very definition of a show-er is that they are larger flaccid and don't grow (ratio wise) as much as a grow-er would.
Totally wrong !! Growers have different expansion ratio ;)
This exactly! The smallest I've been flaccid is 1 inch long, coming in from being out in the cold for a while. My 'normal' flaccid size is about 2.5 inches. I still grow to 7 by 6 when erect. Women with lots of experience, and penis size surveys put me in the 95th percentile for length and 99th percentile for girth.
I've looked at a lot of "from soft to hard" videos on Pornhub, for research only you understand, and I'm still convinced that a larger flaccid cock gets bigger when erect than a small flaccid cock. I'm sure there are exceptions but for the most part I think my theory is true.
Effectively you are disagreeing with all the actual penis size research. Pornhub is not 'research'.

You'd have to look at vintage porn, where they weren't afraid of showing men flaccid and being brought to erection, to see just how 'small' some of the huge porn stars are when they are completely flaccid.
 

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Grower here . Was in the Y sauna , beside a shorter guy with a shower dick . We had met numerous times before. Another guy came in , said something about how small I was ( looks worse because I am 6'4" )
My friend just said - wait until he gets hard . Voice of experience !!
 

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Grower here . Was in the Y sauna , beside a shorter guy with a shower dick . We had met numerous times before. Another guy came in , said something about how small I was ( looks worse because I am 6'4" )
My friend just said - wait until he gets hard . Voice of experience !!

Same here. Guys shouldn't judge us until we show it hard.

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Amazing topic.

I have a buddy with an 8-inch slim, curved cock. Totally soft AND retracted it almost crawls inside him. I have another buddy 7 long x 6.5 girth, and soft you'd think he was strictly average. Cocks are an amazing thing, and in cold weather especially. They will try to go into hibernation and it's a natural reflex!
I'm the same way. If you saw me in the locker room, you'd never know how big I get when hard. My cock varies a bit when soft. . .between 3-4 inches and thin. I grow to 7x6 fully hard. Moral of the story is never judge a dick by it's flaccid state.
 

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I once knew a guy who was famous for his very-visible penis outline in his tight pants (he was black BTW). One day, we in drinking beers and taking sex. Another friend asked him how long his cock was. Before answering, he wanted to know if his soft length or hard length was sought. Soft. His answer was impressive (sadly, I cannot remember what it was). He was then asked what his hard length was. It was 1/2 an inch shorter! He explained that his expanded girth ended up subtracting from his length, that the harder he got, the shorter his penis became. We were stunned.
 

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A guy with a four inch flaccid cock was teasing me over my one and a half incher but was shocked when I beat him in a size contest as I was just short of six inches erect and he only gained slightly over an inch to just surpass five inches
 
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Wrong! My flaccid size varies greatly, from around 2.5-3 inches, sometimes as much as 5 inches, and in really cold weather, I've been as small as 1 inch, almost completely "turtled". My erect size is 7 inches by 6 inches, no matter what my totally irrelevant flaccid size happens to be at that moment.
Pretty much the same sizes here
 

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Grower here
You definitely have a huge cock but what is your completely flaccid size? Your cock can be big flaccid and huge erect, as yours is, and you would still be considered a grower. But I'm talking about a 1-2" cock getting as big as your erection. I think that is extremely rare if at all.
 
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You definitely have a huge cock but what is your completely flaccid size? Your cock can be big flaccid and huge erect, as yours is, and you would still be considered a grower. But I'm talking about a 1-2" cock getting as big as your erection. I think that is extremely rare if at all.
I am 1.5in flaccid. i’ll double check later
 
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Not going to get into the math of what is or isn't a grower or shower, but I am most definitely a grower. In my most humble opinion I am extremely glad I am. Not sure about most of you, but I am flaccid and dressed a whole lot more than I am naked and getting hard. Having a decent bulge as I go through the day is just fine with me, and again - in my humble opinion - I think a guy with a nice size flaccid looks more inviting when he is naked. I know my wife agrees with that, and that's really all that matters in my world.
 
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