Not at all. Human beings “work” in an almost impossible amount of ways. That’s why filtering everything and everyone through identities and sexual behaviors is becoming more and more problematic and basic.
I know people come here to “get off” or indulge whatever fantasies. But situations like this is why it’s important to actually try to genuinely understand the world of sex work, try to understand people’s traumas and struggles and ego, and try to grasp the variations and nuances of “sexuality” and the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, relationship, commitment spectrum. It’s way more helpful than treating everyone as either a piece of meat or as a “Jesus freak”, which is how most here have perceived this dude.