What is it about edging? It is simply a good feeling, rubbing the pre-cum ooze all over your throbbing shaft while trying not to cum. I like the way it feels, sounds and looks on my cock. Yes it is good for solo play or jacking off but I have done it for lovers too, on-line video chats and posing for photos.
Women know that they can get themselves wet and it truly isn’t the same although I love watching a woman play with her pussy (or let me do it for her). Playing with yourself whether it be that first morning hard on or watching porn (which no one does), I like doing it for an audience. Watching them watch me is a turn on and only intensifies my pleasure. Watching them watch me pull my cock up and down and rub the pre-cum all over. I love just letting it drip long strands of it touching the floor. I especially get turned on if they (no mater female or male) start playing with themselves too.
Notoriously I have done this all the way up to Cumming and abruptly stopped only to have my girlfriend beg me to fuck her. I stop completely calming down and getting dressed only to return later and do her in.
It could be the sense of power over the viewer or just that I like to play but I know this for sure having pre-cum makes it so much more intense.