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Originally posted by Axex@Jun 21 2005, 09:34 AM
After a while of being tormented by the thought of "only" having what I have, I realized that there's more to life than the size of my cock. When looking at a girl, deciding if I find her attractive, I don't focus on her chest. As for a guy, a big cock doesn't decide if he's hot or not.
Now for some people, a big chest or a large cock might be a must, if so, I don't know if I want to be with someone who values physical looks so much. What hangs between doesn't make me a good OR bad person. I feel in making this thread I owe it to you all to tell you my size. Erect I'm about 7.75, give or take a bit. Girth, I'm just over 6. Some consider that big, some huge, some think of it as just above average, and honestly, I don't care anymore.
Today, it seems as though too much emphasis is put on penis size. You turn on the TV and you see enlargement pills. You go online and see more adds. If your cock is big enough, you'd better watch out cause chances are you're being brainwashed into thinking you have some sort of erectile disorder. We all know how big a role media plays in our self image. Trends come and go and people usually base how attractive they are off those cookie cutter designs.
So I put this question out there. If you found out that yesterday was the last day your penis would grow, how would you react? For those of you who have passed that age, how did you react when you realized you stopped growing? If you had the choice to grow more, would you? Do you think you are at a point where you'd resort to some sort of cosmetic enhancement? If you have, has it been for the better?
I'd also like to put the same question out there for any females. I think cock size and breast size are similar in many ways. Are you satisfied with your breast size? I know breast implants are a big thing (no pun intended). Would you consider breast implants? If you have gone through with the process has it been for the better?
Originally posted by xanxan@Jun 21 2005, 05:36 PM
I remember when I was 13, my family was on vacation visiting my uncle. He's always been a jokester and a big flirt, openly talking about sex, teller of dirty jokes, etc. He was relentlessly torturing me that week about girls. (Didn't like them then, don't like them now....okay to look at though). He made some flippant comment about how when I got older, I would have to deal with the "family curse" when girls would someday ask me "doesn't that come in a man's size? Isn't it going to get any bigger?", referring to my penis of course. This was the first time I realized that perhaps I didn't have what everyone else had or was supposed to have hanging between my legs. At the time, I already had a more than casual interest in boys. After that week, I became obsessed with them. I wanted to see more boys naked and find out what everyone had.
As I grew older, I found that yes my uncle was right. I am barely average on a good day. Maybe 5.5", not very girthy. I've only ever seen 2 guys smaller than me. Most guys I've played around with over the years have all been 7" or more. Don't ask me how I find them, I just do.
I agree, it isn't a healthy state of being to be obsessed about the size of your penis. There are far greater things to make a person attractive and worthy in the eyes of another. But I have never been able to get past the fact I have a small penis. Would I be happy if I grew some more? I would have to say yes!! If only to provide me with some confidence in myself.
Being a gay man with a small penis is not a good thing, in my opinion. I have allowed the fact that I am not "hung" to color my entire life. I've never dated anyone, I've never had a boyfriend. I have never had the confidence to pursue anyone I was interested in because all the time in the back of my mind there was that voice that said "he'll never be interested in you, you have a small cock." Or there would be the voice of my uncle reminding me someone is going to ask me if it got any bigger. And if I ever found myself playing around with someone, I would only give them head, maybe let them fuck me. I rarely let them do anything to my penis for fear of being laughed at, smirked at, etc.
I think not being more endowed as even pushed me in the direction of "size queen", though I would hate to be described as that. I don't really care how big or small you are, but I personally do enjoy 7 or more inches. It's what I am used to seeing. Hell, it is what I think is average even tho realistically I know it is not.
Anyway, that is my tale of when I realized I wasn't going to grow another inch.
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I think about my cock way more than I probably should.
Originally posted by 7x5.5@Jun 21 2005, 10:12 PM
I am currently a little over 7" (18 - 18.5 cm) and and also around 5.5 girth (14cm) - And nearly 18. My dream size is 8 x 6, which I hope I have by the time I turn 21 . If not, I will be very happy if I get to somewhere like 7.5 x 5.75. If my current size is what I am left with, I will be a little dissapointed that it did not grow anymore - But still very content.
I think with me I almost expect to get bigger considering my Dad is basically massive. But I have accepted that if this is where the end of the road is, penis size wise, I will be happy. I would never even consider any surgery or anything to increase its size.
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Originally posted by Axex@Jun 21 2005, 02:34 PM
For those of you who have passed that age, how did you react when you realized you stopped growing? If you had the choice to grow more, would you? <3
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I'm also happy with ashlar's penis.Originally posted by Dr Rock+Jun 22 2005, 04:55 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Dr Rock @ Jun 22 2005, 04:55 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-ashlar@Jun 21 2005, 05:02 PM
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