How college guys behave naked

[futurbebe]

fair point

 

[ILoveGames48]

I think we as gay men tend to look at men as ina way we can admire their bodies and in hopes get to score with them.. but it isn’t always the case .
When I was in college .. a lot of the guys kept to themselves but others horseplayed around and done what we call… homoerotic behaviors ..

Smack each others asses with towels and even hands.. .. I bend over to pick up a bar of soap and one of the guys runs up behind me quickly grabs my hips and pressed his cock/crotch against my ass .. I could feel his cock in my crack and the head press against my hole as he humped me saying”. Don’t you know it’s not safe to bend over to pick up a bar of soap”

Did it few times and let’s go and walks away as we all were laughing..

In the locker room as sit on bench in front of my locker — couple of the guys would still be naked standing as close to me their cocks couple inches away from my face .. it was kind of funny as the joke they were doing kind of back fired on one of them as his cock began to rise to the occasion. It was probably being that close to my face plus me blowing air into their dicks to see if I would get a reaction..

Then there were a couple guys would look around make sure no one can see me and him and he’d tell me suck his dick.( I was openly gay so they were fine me seeing them naked..— plus I wasn’t the only gay one around —-

But for most part these guys just enjoyed having fun and being free without being label a homosexual .. sure some would say things may went to far but it was all in fun.. and things never went begond the horseplaying around..


I can sit here say all the guys were got n sexy and hung .. but I won’t do that.. as smaller to average guys were there.. but their bodies were nice and asses we’re so freaking hot n sexy .. I’d put food in those cracks and eat out of them.. then lick them to make sure don’t leave anything there..

But 3 1/2 years in college what I’ve said here is just a scratch off the surface the crazy shit we all did.. even played truth or dare .. and spin the bottle .. no women allowed ..

 

[chrisrobin]

Not a lot changes and it all depends on the mix as to what behavior happens and is tolerated by te rest of the group.
My uni days were sent without a ot of upset, yep there was nudity in the showers, especially after having to much drink but all in all everything was open and all to play for as long as it didn't upset the status quo.
Unless you came from a very secluded restricted background there was nothing to offend and all to enjoy - and best of all as it was a kind of forced environment we were all in it really was a question of grow up and mature.
However the services were different and owing to the nature of the deployment loads of testosterone flying about and now of the liberty to get rid of it as in the student days, so, from early days with some guys being aware they were either well built or minute it didn't take long till the showers and the walk back to the bunk naked happened.
Todays youth though are shielded by so many different ideas, frankly to much porn on the laptops isn't a good idea that suddenly the idea of being naked with other naked guys is to much.
Pity really as the idea of them work and building relationships goes out of the window.

 

[mikyang]

Not a lot changes and it all depends on the mix as to what behavior happens and is tolerated by te rest of the group.
My uni days were sent without a ot of upset, yep there was nudity in the showers, especially after having to much drink but all in all everything was open and all to play for as long as it didn't upset the status quo.
Unless you came from a very secluded restricted background there was nothing to offend and all to enjoy - and best of all as it was a kind of forced environment we were all in it really was a question of grow up and mature.
However the services were different and owing to the nature of the deployment loads of testosterone flying about and now of the liberty to get rid of it as in the student days, so, from early days with some guys being aware they were either well built or minute it didn't take long till the showers and the walk back to the bunk naked happened.
Todays youth though are shielded by so many different ideas, frankly to much porn on the laptops isn't a good idea that suddenly the idea of being naked with other naked guys is to much.
Pity really as the idea of them work and building relationships goes out of the window.

we need some modesty hello

 

[ILoveGames48]

modesty as in?

 

[bl00dyhooker]

great thread...it's brilliant

 

[IdeaOfOrder]

An important point I want to make is that we need a new category when it comes to college boys’ sexual arousal. Physicians so far have discovered four stages of penis arousal:

Relaxed (or flaccid),
excited,
plateau (which overlaps or is identical to “orgasm”)
and finally recovery.

I rarely ever see college boys with totally flaccid penises. They are usually just a little excited or stimulated. So, I am proposing a fifth term, between flaccid and excited: "college boy flaccid". I think we need this term because it’s the baseline or default position of the college penis.

I am not being coy. I’ve seen thousands of college guys naked. Most of them demonstrated some kind of arousal. I’m not talking about full erections or even partials. I’m just saying that because a stimulated, simmering excitement is the default mode of the post-adolescent schlong, that we need this new category. Between flaccid and excited is the baseline of the college boy dork.

Also- a related point- not all erections are sexual! A few weeks ago, I saw a swarthy, olive-skinned kid (a first year, so eighteen or nineteen probably; most likely of Italian or Ashkenazy Jewish heritage) do a kind of elaborate towel dance while getting off his boxers. Then he walked to the shower with another towel draped around his shoulders! A true penitent nun. When he came back, my little anchorite shook off his towel from his shoulders and shimmied out of the one around his waist as well. His circumcised cobra was deployed! It pointed up, maybe a little past two o'clock to his navel, tremulously. A firm scrotum enclosed his swollen testicles.

But nothing in his demeanor made me think he was “in the mood” or ready to rock and roll. He was just a college guy with an erect penis who was getting dressed. He didn’t care if other people saw his erection. From his physique it was clear he played sports in high school and was used to being naked around other young guys. These things happen.

It’s interesting- he didn’t have an enormous penis; it was just average. What made it special was that it was upcocked so sharply that it was almost parallel with his stomach. He didn’t rush to put on his boxers, he dried off leisurely before eventually hiding his erection behind stretchy polyester.

He was of slender build, brown hair, five foot eight or so, handsome and elegant. Sensitive to other people’s needs, this kid is likely generous to a fault with his friends, and too diplomatic to have enemies of any kind. He has the name “Ian” tattooed on his back in Hebrew characters, but he might not be Jewish. He looks like a Mama’s boy- someone who still relies on his mom to help him with his laundry and pick out clothes. That means he’s probably great with women- especially when it comes to sex. The sensitivity he extends to his friends, he also extends to his lovers. He is like a spelunker in bed, probing his partner’s hollows and folds with his fingers and tongue. Some college guys freeze up in bed, they get nervous about their performance. But his sanguine indifference to showing some wood in the locker room tells me he doesn’t have that problem. When it’s time for penetrative copulation, I think he can find a good rhythm in no time.

The second time I saw him, a week later, he had just finished with his shower. He was walking to his locker, close to mine, and he didn’t bother with the towel dance at all. He just held the towel with both hands a couple inches in front of his penis, thus not blocking a side view of it at all. It flopped to his stride, side-to-side. This time his penis, while still prominent, pointed out instead of up, and was much smaller; his balls were also less noticeable.

But he was smirking. He had a casual skip to his step. There was a somewhat amused twinkle in his eyes. Maybe he had a hot date with a cheerleader. The fact is, he didn’t have an erection but he gave off a lot more sexual energy. And, finally, I saw his cute little butt. Firm cheeks with a vanishingly small gap between them. This time, I’m the one who got the erection!

Son, you can’t blame me. I learned it all from you, Ian.

 

[Jon1971]

An important point I want to make is that we need a new category when it comes to college boys’ sexual arousal. Physicians so far have discovered four stages of penis arousal:

Relaxed (or flaccid),
excited,
plateau (which overlaps or is identical to “orgasm”)
and finally recovery.

I rarely ever see college boys with totally flaccid penises. They are usually just a little excited or stimulated. So, I am proposing a fifth term, between flaccid and excited: "college boy flaccid". I think we need this term because it’s the baseline or default position of the college penis.

I am not being coy. I’ve seen thousands of college guys naked. Most of them demonstrated some kind of arousal. I’m not talking about full erections or even partials. I’m just saying that because a stimulated, simmering excitement is the default mode of the post-adolescent schlong, that we need this new category. Between flaccid and excited is the baseline of the college boy dork.

Also- a related point- not all erections are sexual! A few weeks ago, I saw a swarthy, olive-skinned kid (a first year, so eighteen or nineteen probably; most likely of Italian or Ashkenazy Jewish heritage) do a kind of elaborate towel dance while getting off his boxers. Then he walked to the shower with another towel draped around his shoulders! A true penitent nun. When he came back, my little anchorite shook off his towel from his shoulders and shimmied out of the one around his waist as well. His circumcised cobra was deployed! It pointed up, maybe a little past two o'clock to his navel, tremulously. A firm scrotum enclosed his swollen testicles.

But nothing in his demeanor made me think he was “in the mood” or ready to rock and roll. He was just a college guy with an erect penis who was getting dressed. He didn’t care if other people saw his erection. From his physique it was clear he played sports in high school and was used to being naked around other young guys. These things happen.

It’s interesting- he didn’t have an enormous penis; it was just average. What made it special was that it was upcocked so sharply that it was almost parallel with his stomach. He didn’t rush to put on his boxers, he dried off leisurely before eventually hiding his erection behind stretchy polyester.

He was of slender build, brown hair, five foot eight or so, handsome and elegant. Sensitive to other people’s needs, this kid is likely generous to a fault with his friends, and too diplomatic to have enemies of any kind. He has the name “Ian” tattooed on his back in Hebrew characters, but he might not be Jewish. He looks like a Mama’s boy- someone who still relies on his mom to help him with his laundry and pick out clothes. That means he’s probably great with women- especially when it comes to sex. The sensitivity he extends to his friends, he also extends to his lovers. He is like a spelunker in bed, probing his partner’s hollows and folds with his fingers and tongue. Some college guys freeze up in bed, they get nervous about their performance. But his sanguine indifference to showing some wood in the locker room tells me he doesn’t have that problem. When it’s time for penetrative copulation, I think he can find a good rhythm in no time.

The second time I saw him, a week later, he had just finished with his shower. He was walking to his locker, close to mine, and he didn’t bother with the towel dance at all. He just held the towel with both hands a couple inches in front of his penis, thus not blocking a side view of it at all. It flopped to his stride, side-to-side. This time his penis, while still prominent, pointed out instead of up, and was much smaller; his balls were also less noticeable.

But he was smirking. He had a casual skip to his step. There was a somewhat amused twinkle in his eyes. Maybe he had a hot date with a cheerleader. The fact is, he didn’t have an erection but he gave off a lot more sexual energy. And, finally, I saw his cute little butt. Firm cheeks with a vanishingly small gap between them. This time, I’m the one who got the erection!

Son, you can’t blame me. I learned it all from you, Ian.

Well, I'm 52 and I think I normally fall in your "College boy flaccid" as it usually doesn't completely go down unless I'm cold and wet.

 

[IdeaOfOrder]

One thing we need to keep in mind when writing about college guys is, of course, to remind readers to do no harm! Do not lurk, do not leer.

Also, these young guys are often starved for the listening ear and attention of an older man. Be a daddy. Be friendly and sociable. Listen to them. Offer them advice when they ask for it, that comes from your own failures and successes, your lived experience. One of the best ways of making love to college guys is to try to make their lives a little better. Once again, be a daddy.

College boys soak up your attention, and draw you into their orbit. You will understand them, they will understand you. Forget about the fact that they are eighteen or nineteen years old and you are older than their fathers. They are Men. Take them for all in all.

With our love and concern, we will find that even our objectification of these boys becomes a kind of worship. If you disagree, then as an earlier poster remarked, don’t read this thread!

I just want to say that if you feel your writing skills aren’t up to snuff but you still want to write about naked young men, then try this exercise: The next time you see a college boy undressing, try to start an imaginary internal dialogue with the boy:

For example, if he’s just taken off his shirt and is about to drop his drawers, say, in silence, “Son, I’m looking forward to seeing your penis.”

Then, when his penis pops out, try to compliment him, mentally, and pick two qualities about his penis that you admire. Try to use verbs and action adjectives. Try to link his penis to his personality. Take the role of a veteran connoisseur of young men’s dongs. Address him as “Son”.

Some examples:

“Son, that is a persistent and energetic penis.”

“Son, that is a thoughtful and diligent penis, like its owner.”

“Son, that penis is a fun-loving, freethinking ne’er-do-well. “

“Son, that penis is a well-behaved sloth, who can’t quite control his excitement!”

“Son, that penis is a ham in the locker room and a General Patton under the covers!”

“Son, that is a shy annd affectionate penis.”

See if you can forecast some of his sexual experiences, just from the shape of his penis. For example, if it’s a chubby, compact one, you can say:

“Son, that chubby ambassador between your legs is going to fix a smile on some lucky lady’s face!”

If the young man is a country boy with a long, scruffy penis, you can say:

“Son, that one-eyed carpenter is going to build you some beautiful babies.”

If the boy is an athlete who often gets “excited” after practices:

“Son, that is a charging thoroughbred that’s going to win the Kentucky Derby!”

If he’s a business major, with a swinging ding-a-ling:

“Son, that long resume is the only qualification you’ll ever need.”

Then, when he wraps a towel around his waist and heads to the shower, say,”Son, thank you for showing me your penis.”

If you do this exercise a few times, you’ll have a whole stock of phrases and impressions, which you can use to build your speculative stories about his personality, life experiences and bedroom habits. In this way you can build a bridge of imagination and joy between yourself and the young colt. Who knows, maybe your tender conjectures will help the boy to meet you halfway. “Daddy” becomes a dreamer, while your adopted “son” becomes a lover.

Definitely writing these stories has made me better at real world sex, definitely. That’s just another skill writing can help you acquire. If I do start sleeping with college men, I’ll share those encounters too.

 

[IdeaOfOrder]

One of the things that most fascinates me about college boys is the fact that their brains are still developing. Psychiatry tells us that, for men, the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain that deals with executive decision making, doesn’t finish developing until the age of 25. That’s long after these boys will have left college. So these kids are on their own, often for the first time in their lives, they’re no longer under parental supervision, they’re thrown in with a bunch of strangers of both sexes, and their brains still haven’t reached maturity, stasis. They are uninhibited and yet crave affirmation and approval.

I read online that “The prefrontal cortex communicates more fully and effectively with other parts of the brain, including those that are particularly associated with emotion and impulses, so that all areas of the brain can be better involved in planning and problem-solving.”

The guys I write about don’t have a fully developed prefrontal cortex yet. When I theorize on how these guys behave in bed, it might sound like I’m being ludicrous or over the top. But if we consider that these guys, while legal adults and 18 +, are still transitioning into adulthood, my speculations may seem more reasonable. For example, I wrote in another thread about the possible sexual behavior of a boy named Dane:

“The unconditional love he received from his mom might translate into a willingness to be a little charming or silly with his partner. He might press his erection to his partner’s lip or ear, for example, or pinch her arms and legs.”

Yes, simulating sex with someone’s ear or lip is goofy, but behind that goofiness is the college boy urge towards self-knowledge and self-discovery. They’re open to all kinds of new ideas and modes of living, college men are fluid and free. I think that freedom and versatility can definitely be seen in their sexual behavior.

Once a college boy asked me why I never became an actual professor, and I told him drily “I hate teaching and I hate kids.” He became charmingly indignant and said, “We’re not kids- we’re half children. I’m a man-child!” He is tall and has curly hair. I’ve seen him naked from behind and can say that his hairy ass definitely qualifies him for the moniker “Man-child”.

One time some college boys were watching a Kendrick Lamar video in the locker room on one of their phones. It’s called “Backstreet Freestyle” and has dark lyrics and shades of meaning. It also features a beautiful Black woman twerking into the camera. One of the boys, an incoming Freshman (I think they all were) suddenly lowered the back of his shorts and starting swinging his naked ass around in imitation of her movements. He was blond, muscular, also a little stocky, and wore a baseball cap. This was Freshman orientation week- and this is how he wanted to present himself to his new friends. They were all laughing and blushing.

I found it interesting- the lady was twerking for these young college boys, and this boy started twerking…for whom? Was he trying to impress his friends? Was he making an unconscious invitation to the gay men in the locker room? Was he just caught up in the song and wanted to act out the video?

(Son, you don't have to ask twice. Papa Bear's gonna take good care of that chubby ass!)

An even slightly older guy wouldn’t behave like that, pumping his naked ass to show how cool he is. He’d be too inhibited. But college kids don’t have those guardrails yet.

This just connects to my point that we can’t predict how a college boy will behave in bed. He might be shy and try to play it safe, or he might go to the other extreme and engage in silly antics. I don’t engage with college guys physically- I only write and fantasize about them. A lot of the fun is not knowing what they’ll do in bed, and then trying to fill in the blanks by observing their behavior.

I’ve often felt that one of the best predictors of a college guy’s success in bed is not the size of his penis but how comfortable he is being naked. On several occasions I saw a twenty year old Jewish kid walk to and from the shower with no towel and sporting a semi erect penis. He had a wobbly gait and walked a little hunched over as if his penis was his guide. I don’t know if he really had an erection or if he just stuck out that way all the time, but like the sometime towel dancing anchorite I mentioned above, he didn’t have any hesitation or qualms if people saw it. That means he’s comfortable in his own skin, he can hold his own against a more experienced lover, can ask for what he wants in bed and can also accommodate his partner’s needs. I also recently mentioned, in a different thread, an attractive soccer player with a hairy ass crack and a swagger when he walked to and from the showers naked. His jaunty walk told me more about his bedroom antics than his thick little dork and hairy ass. I can imagine him getting naked, draping a bedsheet over his shoulders and announcing “I am Mount Dracula and I shall mount you!” while striking a dramatic pose.

Scientists speculate that the promiscuous nature of gay men might reflect how human beings lived before civilization. In other words, with agriculture came the family unit, with the woman in charge of the home, the man in charge of earning a livelihood. Domesticity usually implies things like monogamy, fidelity and other civic virtues. Gay men don’t have to temper their natural instincts for feminine approval, and can have hundreds of partners. I feel a similar state of nature in the all-male venue of the locker room- testosterone fueled young men trying to impress and troll each other, often with jokes and homoerotic horseplay (hence the boy above who showed his bare ass). But once again, their foibles and pranks in the locker room might well portend how they would behave in bed. And of course, even though most of the boys I witness are heterosexual, they almost always start to smile when naked. It might be a self-conscious smile, or it might be a smile that indicates their feeling of being free, at least temporarily, of the domesticating yoke of women.

Thank you, my boys, for being such a rich source of study, and pleasure.

 

[IdeaOfOrder]

This police cam video

provides us with a good example of how boys behave without a fully developed pre frontal cortex. The same impulsive behavior this twenty year old exhibits in driving without a license and lying to the police can easily translate into readily identifiable patterns of behavior in the bedroom including proceeding too far without consent, and not using protection.

On the positive side, and yes college boys have their own unique set of sexual strengths, this lack of inhibition might lead to some charmingly awkward behavior a woman might enjoy. He might spend too long sucking on his woman’s nipples, for example, or he might have difficulty not blowing his load the moment she lifts up her skirt. He may pause in the middle of lovemaking and wait for her to reassure him on his skills as a lover before resuming thrusts. Or he might whisper “I love you, I love you more than the whole world” and mean it, sincerely, but the next day he’ll brag to his friends about getting another chick in the sack.

As college guys are still developing into full adulthood we need to treat them with loving care. We can be guides and parental figures to them as they try to make sense of the real world. We can appreciate their drive and bask in their young masculine heat while also wishing them well on their journey. I hope people enjoy this chronicle of college boys’ locker room behavior, in the nude.

 

[IdeaOfOrder]

Sorry dangling participle. The last sentence is ambiguous. As written it’s unclear whether my readers should enjoy these stories in the nude, or if “in the nude” modifies the college boys. I meant it in the latter sense.

It should have read something like: “I hope these stories of college guys’ behavior when completely nude, may lead to greater empathy and understanding for post adolescent boys.”

Well, at least my participles are not the only things dangling!