Gay, 40+ Hung and Black! Let's TALK

[TDJ6]

Hey guys.

How is everybody, I haven't done a great job of keeping this thread engaged so I apologize for that. Although, anybody can start a topic to get this page moving again.

Here's a loose topic though, because I've been thinking a lot lately about the 2000's. I was weird because I was halfway in my "down low" phase but also going out and hooking up. Basically I wasn't FULLY committed to the "community".

I want to know what are things you love and miss about being gay in the 2000's vs today.

One thing I can say is that I miss how gays weren't so pressed about looking a certain way in pics. We didn't have smartphones with HD capable pics. We didn't have filters or photoshop (at least not as easily accessible as it is now). I feel like today there's a pressure to look "gay perfect" when I don't feel like that was ever a thing back than. I could be wrong.

I also miss DANCING lol!! I feel like people don't dance in the gay clubs anymore. Again, I could be wrong.

But YES please share your 2000's experiences with me. There's obviously a lot of things that are negative about living in that time, but this is trying to highlight the positive!

 

[TDJ6]

HAPPY FRIDAY!

 

[QueenLeo40]

HAPPY FRIDAY!

Happy Friday darlin' ❤

 

[TDJ6]

well dam, this thread is DEAD!!! should i start posting pics or vids to get more attention...

 

[QueenLeo40]

well dam, this thread is DEAD!!! should i start posting pics or vids to get more attention...

I wouldn't say that. I'd say, ask more probing questions. Like, "When did you know you were gay?" or "As as you've gotten older has your sexual "types" changed?"

 

[TDJ6]

I wouldn't say that. I'd say, ask more probing questions. Like, "When did you know you were gay?" or "As as you've gotten older has your sexual "types" changed?"

good idea! thanks for your input - i'll probably have a query later today

 

[QueenLeo40]

good idea! thanks for your input - i'll probably have a query later today

You're welcome. Just trying to help.

 

[QueenLeo40]

Hey guys.

How is everybody, I haven't done a great job of keeping this thread engaged so I apologize for that. Although, anybody can start a topic to get this page moving again.

Here's a loose topic though, because I've been thinking a lot lately about the 2000's. I was weird because I was halfway in my "down low" phase but also going out and hooking up. Basically I wasn't FULLY committed to the "community".

I want to know what are things you love and miss about being gay in the 2000's vs today.

One thing I can say is that I miss how gays weren't so pressed about looking a certain way in pics. We didn't have smartphones with HD capable pics. We didn't have filters or photoshop (at least not as easily accessible as it is now). I feel like today there's a pressure to look "gay perfect" when I don't feel like that was ever a thing back than. I could be wrong.

I also miss DANCING lol!! I feel like people don't dance in the gay clubs anymore. Again, I could be wrong.

But YES please share your 2000's experiences with me. There's obviously a lot of things that are negative about living in that time, but this is trying to highlight the positive!

I miss the music. There were intros and outros to songs and the music had neat drum beats.

 

[QueenLeo40]

Hey Sugarbears, I know that this forum is normally for sexual thangs. Yes, thangs. but, I've always wanted to know. What is your secret non-sexual talent? Do you cook? Dance? Paint? Inquiring minds want to know. I'll go first, I'm a closet singer and writer. (sings woman to woman by Shirley Brown) ❤

 

[SirHungDevon]

Hey Sugarbears, I know that this forum is normally for sexual thangs. Yes, thangs. but, I've always wanted to know. What is your secret non-sexual talent? Do you cook? Dance? Paint? Inquiring minds want to know. I'll go first, I'm a closet singer and writer. (sings woman to woman by Shirley Brown) ❤

Definitely dance. Instruct for a few dance fitness formats on and off and have considered branching into my own thing as well. Also amateur artist/writer. Just need to make more time for it.

 

[frezzie]

Why gotta be hung?

 

[Cum_is_Great]

Why gotta be hung?

Don't have to be hung to reply here. The title was a description of the OP! Feel free to respond!

 

[QueenLeo40]

Definitely dance. Instruct for a few dance fitness formats on and off and have considered branching into my own thing as well. Also amateur artist/writer. Just need to make more time for it.

I love that. Especially dance. I do that as part of my workout. You can't tell I'm not Janet or Paula when I'm dancing.

 

[TDJ6]

what do you all think of my art??

https://www.lpsg.com/gallery/albums/xxx-art-kings-of-porn.1304461/
https://www.lpsg.com/gallery/albums/xxx-art.1157651/

 

[TDJ6]

Hey Sugarbears, I know that this forum is normally for sexual thangs. Yes, thangs. but, I've always wanted to know. What is your secret non-sexual talent? Do you cook? Dance? Paint? Inquiring minds want to know. I'll go first, I'm a closet singer and writer. (sings woman to woman by Shirley Brown) ❤

I write.
in school I wanted to be a journalist... and than as an adult that industry was dying softly.
I blogged for a while. about music and movies. And I did include some short stories.
that blog was kind of a flop. So I kinda stopped writing, but kept coming up with ideas.

I currently would love to write a graphic novel. I have in the past few years rediscovered by my love for drawing and I want to marry my love of writing with the love of art.

What I'm working on now, I really love it and I hope my laziness and procrastination doesn't get in the way.

but i also used to love to dance. I would always copy the moves from the 90's Janet Jackson videos and Aaliyah and Beyonce and them. but we probably ALL did that LOL!!!

 

[Kanashi]

would always copy the moves from the 90's Janet Jackson videos and Aaliyah and Beyonce and them. but we probably ALL did that LOL!!!

yes and yes and yes!!

 

[TDJ6]

yes and yes and yes!!

"miss you much" was the hardest i think ... aaliyah "are you that somebody" and "try again" were so much fun to learn and do!

 

[TDJ6]

Hey people!!!

 

[Kanashi]

Howdy!

 

[QueenLeo40]

Hey people!!!

Hey! You know, you are one of my LPSG crushes. I hope you're doing well. By the way, I need to come to Atlanta so you make me one of your "painted girls."