Hi all,
I was just thinking about this, prompted by my uneventful dating life, do (you) muscular gay guys ever feel attracted to slim/skinny gay guys like myself?
I’m not talking twink-like, I’m talking just plain, no visible signs of working out, just flat up and down, basically haha.
I’m not an app user (hookup or dating), as I know plenty who haven’t had good experiences with online love searching and I was just wondering if the muscular folk on here would ever desire an ordinary, unremarkable body, or if your interests lie solely in those who mirror your own physique?
Aside from the obvious (gym), do you have any tips on how to attract muscular guys?
A friend said to me I shouldn’t idolise muscular guys so much as it promotes a kind of toxic masculinity, which made me feel kind of bad and think that I should abort all interest. How do I make eye contact or send signs I’m interested if I think a) a guy is gay and b) my type without inadvertently hitting on a straight guy?
It’s always been the muscular guys I’ve been attracted to online and irl. I’m not averse to other body types, but a nice six pack and big arms is my ideal.
The friend also said that muscular guys are always up themselves and that I should lower my *standards*. I think dedicating time to building a good physique is admirable, but they don’t seem to think so haha!
They also said that I shouldn’t really have a type because that’s not what dating is about nowadays, so I kind of feel in limbo with my attractions.
Thanks for reading guys!
I was just thinking about this, prompted by my uneventful dating life, do (you) muscular gay guys ever feel attracted to slim/skinny gay guys like myself?
I’m not talking twink-like, I’m talking just plain, no visible signs of working out, just flat up and down, basically haha.
I’m not an app user (hookup or dating), as I know plenty who haven’t had good experiences with online love searching and I was just wondering if the muscular folk on here would ever desire an ordinary, unremarkable body, or if your interests lie solely in those who mirror your own physique?
Aside from the obvious (gym), do you have any tips on how to attract muscular guys?
A friend said to me I shouldn’t idolise muscular guys so much as it promotes a kind of toxic masculinity, which made me feel kind of bad and think that I should abort all interest. How do I make eye contact or send signs I’m interested if I think a) a guy is gay and b) my type without inadvertently hitting on a straight guy?
It’s always been the muscular guys I’ve been attracted to online and irl. I’m not averse to other body types, but a nice six pack and big arms is my ideal.
The friend also said that muscular guys are always up themselves and that I should lower my *standards*. I think dedicating time to building a good physique is admirable, but they don’t seem to think so haha!
They also said that I shouldn’t really have a type because that’s not what dating is about nowadays, so I kind of feel in limbo with my attractions.
Thanks for reading guys!