Help with talking wife into letting me and another guy fuck her

[LemonMan111]

Hey everyone,
I have been married to my wife for 7 months but total been with her for 3 years.

She knows my fetish of me fucking her with another guy but I haven’t seriously tried to convince her. She likes to play with dildos while we fuck like sucking on it and playing with it. When we have had a lot to drink she will cuck me a little talking about how she loves cock etc. I do think this is for play and not something she would ACTUALLY do. Can anyone help me go about how to convince her to do it for real??

 

[GS_PL]

Realistically, you can't. Unless you both are on equal agreement to become swingers, in makes no sense to do this. Your personal interest in this scenario likely could be because you're interested in being with guys as well. If I were a woman with my husband and a stranger sexually, I'd insist that the guys interact with one another, or it's a no-go.

 

[LemonMan111]

Realistically, you can't. Unless you both are on equal agreement to become swingers, in makes no sense to do this. Your personal interest in this scenario likely could be because you're interested in being with guys as well. If I were a woman with my husband and a stranger sexually, I'd insist that the guys interact with one another, or it's a no-go.

I am not gay and have no interest in being with men. I just want to see my wife with another man and to jump in and double team her. I want to clarify, I don’t want to fuck the man as well. I want to double team.

 

[hzs3fg]

r/hotwifelifestyle

 

[thongboy]

If you both like porn, see how she responds to hot 3-way action. If she's turned on, that's a start. But take your time — and since you're both straight make sure there's not a bi element in what
you watch.
My gf and I do at least one MMF a month (in our case bi) but threesomes aren't for everyone.

 

[VladtheImpaler]

Be very careful with this fantasy. You may get more than you planned on. Be prepared to have her want this new guy when you aren't around

 

[Evenflow618]

why even be married just be single and have orgies

 

[Justawatcher23]

Hey everyone,
I have been married to my wife for 7 months but total been with her for 3 years.

She knows my fetish of me fucking her with another guy but I haven’t seriously tried to convince her. She likes to play with dildos while we fuck like sucking on it and playing with it. When we have had a lot to drink she will cuck me a little talking about how she loves cock etc. I do think this is for play and not something she would ACTUALLY do. Can anyone help me go about how to convince her to do it for real??

You can't. You would need her to have the idea and be okay with it first. Maybe one day, but if you push it a lot she's just going to get further from accepting .

 

[elklindoxxx]

Hey everyone,
I have been married to my wife for 7 months but total been with her for 3 years.

She knows my fetish of me fucking her with another guy but I haven’t seriously tried to convince her. She likes to play with dildos while we fuck like sucking on it and playing with it. When we have had a lot to drink she will cuck me a little talking about how she loves cock etc. I do think this is for play and not something she would ACTUALLY do. Can anyone help me go about how to convince her to do it for real??

So first of all. If you go to her out of the blue and tell her that you want to basically gang bang her with some other guy who's a stranger. That's almost certainly going to freak her out and it's going to cause you a whole bunch of problems.

As a point of reference. My partner and I live the lifestyle. And the first time when I first approached her about it, the discussion didn't involve such encounters. I first opened the discussion by telling her how I was open to having other relationships. And I did have friends of the opposite sex who I was socializing with. And there were exes that I was still friends with. Then after further discussion we both realized that our so called monogamous was not truly monogamous, on both ends. And you'll be surprised how many couples don't have monogamous relationships.

So first consider exploring what is involved in having an open relationship. Forget about your fantasies. And be prepared to have some long discussions about what is involved.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Be careful what you wish for.. a friend of mine wanted his girlfriend to do same thing.. but during sex with him and another guy ( which was me) he wanted her to let me do her in the ass .. she puts him on the spot says she will if he will.. he says he wasn’t gay .. she says that her ass was an outie not an innie ..

He caved in and says got a deal.. so I did her a while then she says his turn.. he tried to back out but she wasn’t going to let him get out of it that easy..

So be careful.. when your fantasies become known then hers will and a lot of women( not all). Want to see their man take a fucking

 

[Antkelly]

Be careful what you wish for.. a friend of mine wanted his girlfriend to do same thing.. but during sex with him and another guy ( which was me) he wanted her to let me do her in the ass .. she puts him on the spot says she will if he will.. he says he wasn’t gay .. she says that her ass was an outie not an innie ..

He caved in and says got a deal.. so I did her a while then she says his turn.. he tried to back out but she wasn’t going to let him get out of it that easy..

So be careful.. when your fantasies become known then hers will and a lot of women( not all). Want to see their man take a fucking

 

[Antkelly]

Something kinda similar happened to me, the wife left him, he wasn’t careful what he wished for his missus ‍

 

[AceWilde]

As someone who has been the third person a few times, you definitely need to listen to everyone telling you to go slow and make sure everything is talked about and OK between the two of you first. Trust me when I say nothing makes for an awkward encounter like someone having to immediately stop a threeway because a boundary that wasn't discussed got crossed.