finding out you’re big

[Jacksbiguncutcock]

I had no basis for comparison. I’m over 65 so no internet when I was growing up. Porn was not readily accessible either. Needed to get response from flopping that thing out there for someone!!!

Here is my meat

 

[Wooly Mammoth]

First I heard was from my boyfriend in the mid 80s when I was in my 20s. He showed a picture of me wearing white pants. I was showing a bulge. He said that some of his friends remarked on the picture "he is well hung, isn't he?" I thought I was 6.5", which I reckoned average. Like other guys, I discounted girth. Nobody was talking about that. Plus, I have big balls, so I thought that would account for having a big bulge.

A few more reactions over the years, "wow" and such, I filed away in my memory. When I moved across the country, my first boyfriend here said I couldn't fuck him. He said it had been a while since he was fucked, and I was too big. "What? not as big as a porn star big, right?" was my response. "Yes, porn star big." I was okay not fucking him, since as I relate below, I wasn't fucking anyway. When other men said that mine was the biggest dick they had held in their hands, or whatever, I discounted their remarks, thinking "You need to get out more."

My current husband has a dick that is larger than average. When he first saw mine, he said something like "I thought I was big!"

What complicates the issue is my lifelong erection dysfunction. I rarely got hard around other men or women. Turns out I am a grower AND a show-er, and my dick starts out big and gets bigger. Once I got on PreP and my fear of HIV subsided, I could finally get hard enough to fuck a guy. Then the fun began in earnest!

My husband got me a penis pump for Christmas about 10 years ago. I can now reach the 21cm mark on the pump. A couple of times I filled the tube (8.5 inches, not sure of the width), and when I first take my dick out, it's 8 inches around, spongy from lymph build-up, and rather useless. It soon subsides to its regular girth. That said, I can almost claim 7 inches around when I've had a cock ring on for a while.

The other factor in all this is body dysmorphia. I've been chubby since I was a child. The fat pad hides some length (Al Parker stayed very lean which meant he showed his entire length in porn.) Also, the last time I was able to suck my dick was about 45 years ago. I got the head in my mouth exactly once. I can remember as my dickhead was approaching my mouth thinking "what the hell, that's huge." I could barely get my jaw open wide enough while I had my legs thrown over my head and my chin touching my chest.

All the ridiculous measurements in porn (John Holmes, 13.5" ha, Jonah Falcon 13" ha!) led me to believe I was slightly bigger than average. And does anybody remember "AOL inches"?

 

[lapdog2001]

I love hearing about guys who honestly thought they were normal size until someone told them it was way bigger than most. That's crazy hot to me.

I've already addressed this earlier in the thread, and like the most recent posts, there was no internet or easily access penis size survey data when I was in my 20s. If I believed "porn inches" I was small, but I knew I seemed to fit in the middle of the sizes I saw on screen. I'm 7 inches long, not the 8, 9, and 10 inches all the porn and Penthouse Forum guys claimed to be. My girth is 6 inches, which I had seen no published references to, so the statements of the women I was with saying I was very thick were my feedback.

I knew I was the larger side of "average" or maybe a little bit bigger. When I was with my first (sexual) girlfriend and she said I was "Huge!" among the biggest of the 30+ guys she had before me

(She was highly experienced for being in her early twenties. She had serious long-term monogamous relationships, but "had a lot of fun" in-between relationships).​

I replied "Really?" She said "yes" and said she wanted it inside her right now. I complied! At another point size came up again when we were getting sexual and she mentioned loving big and thick I was. So I asked how did I compared to her biggest, and she put her fingers about 2 inches past my raging 7 inch erection. But, she said, while that guy was longer he wasn't nearly as thick as me and she really, really loved my thickness.

I'm a grow-er not a show-er, so most of the women I've been with first experienced me hard and not flaccid. Every single woman I've ever been with has commented on my size, referencing the "perfect" combination of length and girth. Soo... when the 2nd women I was with says while stroking me, "Wow, you're big!" and then the 3rd woman I was with says "You're nice and thick", and the 4th woman says "Big boy!" and the 5th woman .... you get the idea!

 

[Dmrg]

I've already addressed this earlier in the thread, and like the most recent posts, there was no internet or easily access penis size survey data when I was in my 20s. If I believed "porn inches" I was small, but I knew I seemed to fit in the middle of the sizes I saw on screen. I'm 7 inches long, not the 8, 9, and 10 inches all the porn and Penthouse Forum guys claimed to be. My girth is 6 inches, which I had seen no published references to, so the statements of the women I was with saying I was very thick were my feedback.

I knew I was the larger side of "average" or maybe a little bit bigger. When I was with my first (sexual) girlfriend and she said I was "Huge!" among the biggest of the 30+ guys she had before me

(She was highly experienced for being in her early twenties. She had serious long-term monogamous relationships, but "had a lot of fun" in-between relationships).​

I replied "Really?" She said "yes" and said she wanted it inside her right now. I complied! At another point size came up again when we were getting sexual and she mentioned loving big and thick I was. So I asked how did I compared to her biggest, and she put her fingers about 2 inches past my raging 7 inch erection. But, she said, while that guy was longer he wasn't nearly as thick as me and she really, really loved my thickness.

I'm a grow-er not a show-er, so most of the women I've been with first experienced me hard and not flaccid. Every single woman I've ever been with has commented on my size, referencing the "perfect" combination of length and girth. Soo... when the 2nd women I was with says while stroking me, "Wow, you're big!" and then the 3rd woman I was with says "You're nice and thick", and the 4th woman says "Big boy!" and the 5th woman .... you get the idea!

Can we see it?

 

[Murphys]

I've already addressed this earlier in the thread, and like the most recent posts, there was no internet or easily access penis size survey data when I was in my 20s. If I believed "porn inches" I was small, but I knew I seemed to fit in the middle of the sizes I saw on screen. I'm 7 inches long, not the 8, 9, and 10 inches all the porn and Penthouse Forum guys claimed to be. My girth is 6 inches, which I had seen no published references to, so the statements of the women I was with saying I was very thick were my feedback.

I knew I was the larger side of "average" or maybe a little bit bigger. When I was with my first (sexual) girlfriend and she said I was "Huge!" among the biggest of the 30+ guys she had before me

(She was highly experienced for being in her early twenties. She had serious long-term monogamous relationships, but "had a lot of fun" in-between relationships).​

I replied "Really?" She said "yes" and said she wanted it inside her right now. I complied! At another point size came up again when we were getting sexual and she mentioned loving big and thick I was. So I asked how did I compared to her biggest, and she put her fingers about 2 inches past my raging 7 inch erection. But, she said, while that guy was longer he wasn't nearly as thick as me and she really, really loved my thickness.

I'm a grow-er not a show-er, so most of the women I've been with first experienced me hard and not flaccid. Every single woman I've ever been with has commented on my size, referencing the "perfect" combination of length and girth. Soo... when the 2nd women I was with says while stroking me, "Wow, you're big!" and then the 3rd woman I was with says "You're nice and thick", and the 4th woman says "Big boy!" and the 5th woman .... you get the idea!

Very similar to my journey.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

I found out from my first boyfriend's friend early on because he and I both never really regarded my cock