What role does a large penis play in sex for bottoms?

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I would say it could only be a bit of a turn off if it's VERY small. Other than that, I'll be honest dick size is optional to me; mostly because it's not something one can choose about themselves anyway. But also because even though I do love how huge dicks look, the thing with average dicks is that that's what they are : Average, which makes them absolutely perfect. They might not look as "cool" as huge ones, but when it comes to using them it makes things so much easier for me as a bottom. Easy to blow, easy to deepthroat, easy to take. So big dicks have their own advantages, but so do average ones.
Long story short, if you got an average cock... I might not be as thrilled about the cock itself when looking at it, but you bet you'll be spending a lot more time wrecking my hole with it than an 8incher and loving every second of it lol
 

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As a guy who prefers bottoming, I think shape and technique matters more than size. Yes I prefer the bigger size, but for me, an average sized dick that gets super hard and curves up a bit feels a lot better than a giant straight one. I've had some huge dicks up my ass, but my personal favourites have definitely been the super hard ones ones that curve up a bit (whether they are small or average). The super straight ones don't feel as good to me, but I'm never going to say no ;)

Reminds me of this guy who had the thickest cock I've ever seen to this day still (and I've seen had at least 300-400) - it was like a soda can, maybe even bigger. We used to get drunk together at a bar below my apartment and try and have sex after. I really likes him but his dick was so big I couldn't even fit beyond the tip in my mouth. He was in an open marriage because his bottom husband couldn't take his dick. I couldn't manage fitting his dick in my ass and we tried 4-5 times (and I've been DP'ed). We finally managed once and it was fine. Compared to a regular I had at the time who had a slightly bigger than average cock with the perfect shape for me - I could never get enough, I was always blown away - I saw him every 2-3 weeks for 2 years.

Fun story: Once at a sauna, guys were jokingly competing to see who could take this one guys giant dick. Many tried and failed. When I tried and slowly sat on it, I managed to fit it in and "won" - there was a round of applause :joy:. He fucked me for a minute, but didn't manage for much longer because he came - he just wasn't used to guys taking his cock. He still wasn't as big as the bar guy, but he was a lot longer.

I also find that the super big cocks don't always get as hard as the average/small ones. And sometimes the guys with the giant cocks haven't made as much of an effort because they feel like they don't need to.
 

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Sex isn't just about physicality, it is also very much about the mind. If big dicks turn a bottom on mentally, it is going to make the sex feel hotter. For me personally, I am much more turned on by a guy with a big cock than I am an average size. Being much more turned on = a much more erotic experience for me.