I’m in a relationship with someone 30 years older than me we have been together 8 years and it does work.
We are very happy and together in a healthy relationship
When I was in my 20s I was drawn to men older than me and it can be a bit frightening at times! But if you are careful and sensible you will be fine.
It can feel weird at times and being compared to his son but we laugh it off as it’s just people judging us o. There terms but it never effects our time together