Male Bonding etc

This guy is Dave Johnson from somewhere in Pennsylvania. He was born about 1978, and he was hot in the bodybuilding scene a few years ago.
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We may simply project onto people like him characteristics we WANT to see, but I think I see more than just a musclehead here.

It's pretty much a given that to get that size he's used steroids, but what else do we know about him and what he is doing now? I googled and didn't come...

I was reading about pheromones the other day, and I wondered how much they might explain the confusing signals I seem to respond to. I mean there are all kinds of beautiful women, and I do appreciate how truly stunning some women look. Still, if a person is going to turn my head visually, that person is probably going to be a guy.

So, maybe pheromones explain why I like looking at guys so much, but when I get physically close to them much of that interest flies out the window. In other...

Dicks can get my attention.

• Big dicks, like flaccid ones that hang halfway to the knees, can overcome much of my reserve. A dick like that is just not that easy to be discreet about.
• Then there's foreskin. If it covers the head, even when the dick is erect, and there's still some skin left to make a little nozzle, yeah, that's very cool.
• And an upward curve... Man, that makes it look like a tool that is designed for good sex!

A dick doesn't have to have all three, or even any, of the above...

I once mentioned having a relationship with another guy and he thought it only meant sexual. Perhaps it's because I am so "literal" in my interpretation of some words and concepts, but "sexual" is only one kind of relationship.

Anyone who's read more than 3 or 4 of my posts would probably know that I am more interested in meaningful emotional, intellectual, even spiritual relationships than I am merely sexual ones. That's not to say that I don't relish sex, far...