One of the changes to the site has been the addition of a friend's facility. As far as I can see this has no discernable purpose, it's neither use nor ornament, so I've decided not to add people who've requested me to be their friend. They're my friends anyway without me adding them to a silly list and they know how to pm me and that I'll always answer people I consider friends.
I think it's great we now have blogs, on a previous site I was on the blog facility was one I really enjoyed, it allows people to see what we have to say without searching all over for it, and we can use it in so many different ways, some people use blogs as personal journals, some to vent and some prefer to stick the stories they've written in their blog rather than in the erotic stories section.