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How comfortable are you being seen nude?
Posted 10-05-2007 at 10:22 AM by IanTheTall
The questions were originally asked by jumbo747jet.
I'd really appreciate it if as many as possible would take the time to read through this post and then reply to it.
I'd ideally like to see as many different kinds of men respond so that we can get a good look into how many of us feel in these situations.
All situations are about being naked around others, but as we all know, there are some situations we are more comfortable with than others.
The question to all the following situations is:
How comfortable are you being seen nude?
Please include your age, your flaccid size, your erect size and your country of residence in your reply.
Situation 1: You are at the gym on your own and when you get to the showers, there are about 8 people you do not know there already.
fine
Situation 2: You are at the gym on your own and when you get to the showers, there are some strangers and 2 others who you know from somewhere there already. ( i.e. somebody you sometimes see in your neighbourhood but who you do not know personally, or somebody who often catches the same bus as you do in the mornings )
fine
Situation 3: You are at the gym on your own and when you get to the showers, there are some strangers and two people you know by name there already. ( i.e. neighbour, or somebody who works at the same place as you do )
usually fine
Don't care if neighbors, fellow members of community groups (even board level), or former coworkers see me naked in the gym shower.
Clients (coworkers) are a different issue. My comfort level would depend on who it is. We have become friendly with some of the people we directly work with and one of the guys we report to is a college friend, I would have no issue entering the gym shower room that these guys are in. However, I think I would feel somewhat uncomfortable/selfconscious, if there were a person that 'reports' to us or that we report to, in the shower room. There have been uncomfortable situations when coworkers/bosses found out/saw my size, generally nothing directly was said or done, but there was a subtle change in attitude.
note: My girlfriend and my boyfriend have a consulting/development business.
Situation 4: You are with a group of male friends on a boat trip for the day. The suggestion of you all going skinnydipping comes up.
fine
Situation 5: You are with a group of male co-workers on a boat trip for the day. The suggestion of you all going skinnydipping comes up.
I'd rather puke up a kidney. Ending up in a gym shower with a client/coworker is something that just happens even if I would be somewhat conscious of their presence. Skinny dipping is totally different, there is almost always at least a subtle sexual level present.
Situation 6: You are with a group of complete strangers of both sexes on a boat trip for the day. ( think package deal vacation) The idea of you all going skinnydipping comes up.
I wouldn't start the skinny dipping, but I would join in.
Situation 7: You are with a group of complete strangers, all male, on a boat trip for the day. ( think package deal vacation )The suggestion of you all going skinnydipping comes up.
Among close friends and not so close friends, the size of my cock is the worst kept secret, every one knows. They haven't all seen it or more, but they talk to each other (even though they don't admit it).
Situation 8: You are at a garden party with some close friends of both sexes. When everybody have had a few drinks, and are feeling the effects of the alcohol, somebody suggests you all get naked and jump in the pool.
One guy goes first and you can see that he is clearly smaller than you are in the trouser department.
I wouldn't start the skinny dipping, but I would join in.
Situation 9: You are at a garden party with some close friends of both sexes. When everybody have had a few drinks, and are feeling the effects of the alcohol, somebody suggests you all get naked and jump in the pool.
One guy goes first and you can see that he is clearly bigger than you are in the trouser department.
The one friend/guy I know that is larger than me wouldn't be the first one to skinny dip. Should this ever happen, I'd have no issue stripping down.
Situation 10: You are at a garden party with some close friends of both sexes. When everybody have had a few drinks, and are feeling the effects of the alcohol, somebody suggests you all get naked and jump in the pool.
One guy goes first and you can see that he is very close in size to you in the trouser department.
fine
Please remember to include your age, flaccid size, erect size and your country of residence in your reply.
age: mid 30s
flaccid: about 7" and thick (WELL under 5" when skinny dipping, almost looks uncut)
erect: 10" by almost 8" around
country: first generation American (Mom is Danish, Dad is German with Czech parents)
I'd really appreciate it if as many as possible would take the time to read through this post and then reply to it.
I'd ideally like to see as many different kinds of men respond so that we can get a good look into how many of us feel in these situations.
All situations are about being naked around others, but as we all know, there are some situations we are more comfortable with than others.
The question to all the following situations is:
How comfortable are you being seen nude?
Please include your age, your flaccid size, your erect size and your country of residence in your reply.
Situation 1: You are at the gym on your own and when you get to the showers, there are about 8 people you do not know there already.
fine
Situation 2: You are at the gym on your own and when you get to the showers, there are some strangers and 2 others who you know from somewhere there already. ( i.e. somebody you sometimes see in your neighbourhood but who you do not know personally, or somebody who often catches the same bus as you do in the mornings )
fine
Situation 3: You are at the gym on your own and when you get to the showers, there are some strangers and two people you know by name there already. ( i.e. neighbour, or somebody who works at the same place as you do )
usually fine
Don't care if neighbors, fellow members of community groups (even board level), or former coworkers see me naked in the gym shower.
Clients (coworkers) are a different issue. My comfort level would depend on who it is. We have become friendly with some of the people we directly work with and one of the guys we report to is a college friend, I would have no issue entering the gym shower room that these guys are in. However, I think I would feel somewhat uncomfortable/selfconscious, if there were a person that 'reports' to us or that we report to, in the shower room. There have been uncomfortable situations when coworkers/bosses found out/saw my size, generally nothing directly was said or done, but there was a subtle change in attitude.
note: My girlfriend and my boyfriend have a consulting/development business.
Situation 4: You are with a group of male friends on a boat trip for the day. The suggestion of you all going skinnydipping comes up.
fine
Situation 5: You are with a group of male co-workers on a boat trip for the day. The suggestion of you all going skinnydipping comes up.
I'd rather puke up a kidney. Ending up in a gym shower with a client/coworker is something that just happens even if I would be somewhat conscious of their presence. Skinny dipping is totally different, there is almost always at least a subtle sexual level present.
Situation 6: You are with a group of complete strangers of both sexes on a boat trip for the day. ( think package deal vacation) The idea of you all going skinnydipping comes up.
I wouldn't start the skinny dipping, but I would join in.
Situation 7: You are with a group of complete strangers, all male, on a boat trip for the day. ( think package deal vacation )The suggestion of you all going skinnydipping comes up.
Among close friends and not so close friends, the size of my cock is the worst kept secret, every one knows. They haven't all seen it or more, but they talk to each other (even though they don't admit it).
Situation 8: You are at a garden party with some close friends of both sexes. When everybody have had a few drinks, and are feeling the effects of the alcohol, somebody suggests you all get naked and jump in the pool.
One guy goes first and you can see that he is clearly smaller than you are in the trouser department.
I wouldn't start the skinny dipping, but I would join in.
Situation 9: You are at a garden party with some close friends of both sexes. When everybody have had a few drinks, and are feeling the effects of the alcohol, somebody suggests you all get naked and jump in the pool.
One guy goes first and you can see that he is clearly bigger than you are in the trouser department.
The one friend/guy I know that is larger than me wouldn't be the first one to skinny dip. Should this ever happen, I'd have no issue stripping down.
Situation 10: You are at a garden party with some close friends of both sexes. When everybody have had a few drinks, and are feeling the effects of the alcohol, somebody suggests you all get naked and jump in the pool.
One guy goes first and you can see that he is very close in size to you in the trouser department.
fine
Please remember to include your age, flaccid size, erect size and your country of residence in your reply.
age: mid 30s
flaccid: about 7" and thick (WELL under 5" when skinny dipping, almost looks uncut)
erect: 10" by almost 8" around
country: first generation American (Mom is Danish, Dad is German with Czech parents)
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Comments
 |  Ok... i'll try to have a shot at this... Situation 1: At the gym.. well, I'm already going to the gym and that situation always comes up. actually to me it's totally erotic. I love being naked in front of people i don't know, especially if they are my age and beautiful. usually, when in a situation like that, you end up getting curious eyes and end up jackin off with someone anyway. it can actually get pretty damn hot...whew. Situation 2: Good situation. In regards to the 2 that I don't know, it would fall under situation 1... but the 2 that I do 'somewhat' know, that would depend on how well i know them.... are they married? are they a friend of the family? and so on. if we just ride the bus together at times, no problem. but if they are in my neighborhood, then that could be a problem because they live in the same area as i do. if anything happens in that shower with them (basically a session of jackin off together, for example) you both know where each other live... not a good thing. things happen. it's great feeling jackin off together in the shower... then... everyone goes home or into their own little world wherever that may be. i'm just not a long-term relationship guy with the same-sex. Situation 3: Ok, so you've got some strangers... no prob. and some other ppl, this time you know their names... careful there big guy... not always good. if they don't know where you live and they don't play much part in your life (work/home) then i won't feel embarassed taking a shower with them, i just wouldn't pull a stare or a sexual 'let's jack off together' move on them. like the other day when that happened... i'd have a civilized conversation with them in the shower, then after those ppl who i know by name leave... i can have some fun with the others... as long as i know they are long gone. you have to really be careful, in terms of atmosphere, in the gym. you get signals to do, or not to do, certain things in the gym... you also really play it by ear. plus, at the same time, you don't want to get caught doing something that can show up in the community newsletter in your area, or worse, at work. Situation 4: Ah, skinnydipping... what fun, but... no. I love my friends, especially if i've known them throughout my childhood. and i extermely value that. i see them as brothers really. but i always worry that one day i'd think of them sexually. thus, i always try not to shower with them, or for that matter, to even be in the same locker room with them if possible, because the idea of lust can prevail and all hell can break loose. And I would never want to jeopardize losing them for the simple fact that i wanted to turn a fantasy into reality... having them just as friends (or brothers) is just too valueable to think of them sexually or to even attempt to 'come out' to them. if it's working fine, don't try to fix it. cause if you do come out, or fuck up somewhere down the road and do something stupid, like stare at their cock in the shower or whatever... you'll regret it. i'm sure. Situation 5: See Situation 4. The only reason I say that is because they are still people who play a part in your life. Being, you still have to go to work tomorrow and see them. And again, it isn't wise to jeopardize your current situation at work either. You'll regret it if you, for example, see them naked then lust comes creeping up on you, then you keep having fantasies about a certain someone, can't think straight at work, semi-flirt with this person... he gets freaked out, kicks your ass for getting too close to him, and possibly gets you fired in the process... doesn't sound too worth it now, does it? Situation 6: If they are complete strangers and are already in the water, I'd probably join in... only if they are complete strangers. Sounds hot. Situation 7: See situation 6 Situation 8: Well, the guy that just jumped into the pool has balls to do it, especially with a tiny package. That's the kind of guy that makes the party worthwhile. But no. I actually wouldn't get naked and jump into the pool. You're drunk, and these are ALL people you know. Being intoxicated plus naked, could f**k up your evening.... remember, anything can happen... good or bad. But always focus on the bad, and the worse case-scenerio. It's not that you wouldn't have any fun, it's just that you might really do something stupid that you'll regret the next morning. Situation 9: Whether the guy is big or small won't really matter. It's the idea of the whole thing. So in this case, see situation 8. Situation 10: See situation 8 and 9. my age: 29 flaccid: about 5.5 erect: 7.5-8 located in california |
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| | very interesting topic. I was once at the gym when suddenly five of my students came in the showers. I had already caught them looking at my big crotch with amazed eyes wondering what size that cock would be but they had never seen me naked; At first, I actually felt very embarrassed. All kept looking at my horse hung cock. I was very nervous but found it was just funny. I also kept looking at their cocks trying to compare sizes. On the following day, their classmates were looking at me with very amazed eyes. One day, one of them drew a bludgeon on the board. I just smiled and started the lesson. |
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| |  i do love jumbo, so i'll take a crack at it. age:18 flaccid: about 3" or so. i look small when i'm flaccid. erect: 6" country: the bahamas 1:i'd be apprehensive, but i could do it. 2:nope. only if they had a worse body than me. i'm horribly insecure about my body. i need to start working out it seems. 3: i guess the same answer as 2. 4: oh yeah. once everybody else does it too! sounds like fun. 5: i guess the same as 4. all in good fun, right? 6: not really. i rather be naked around guys than girls. 7: that's a bit odd...but if everybody did it, i would too. 8: hmm...i might. i would be apprehensive, but i would feel more inclined if the guy was smaller than me. 9: whoa. lol. i would probably stay out. 10: let's do it! this was fun! |
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| | I am wantsafeliongcock. The man who fucked me in 1972 had 17" cock hard, lubed felt very good. My cock hard is 7" I could not fuck his ass, ass too big. I've been in quite a few hot tubs where clothing optional. When possible I have reached underwater and felt cocks and pussy's. If they objected then I would move on to the next person. I have enjoyed many a fuck or suck outside the tub after breaking the barrier in the tub. No actual sex was permitted in tub. So we would go inside and find a space to fuck or suck in. Man with 17" cock is now dead Aids. I am clean, no STD'S. Looking foe new big cock for my asshole, hope he has a small buttox so I can stretch my cock in his ass. I am 68 yrs. Love being nude and fucking outdoors, doggy style best. WSLC |
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| | Situation 1: You are at the gym on your own and when you get to the showers, there are about 8 people you do not know there already. no problem with this at all Situation 2: You are at the gym on your own and when you get to the showers, there are some strangers and 2 others who you know from somewhere there already. ( i.e. somebody you sometimes see in your neighbourhood but who you do not know personally, or somebody who often catches the same bus as you do in the mornings ) this has happened to me many times and again I have no problems with this Situation 3: You are at the gym on your own and when you get to the showers, there are some strangers and two people you know by name there already. ( i.e. neighbour, or somebody who works at the same place as you do ) would make for a longer shower because I know two of them, so more opportunity for a laugh and a chat while showering, no problem being naked here Situation 4: You are with a group of male friends on a boat trip for the day. The suggestion of you all going skinnydipping comes up. I'm up for that Situation 5: You are with a group of male co-workers on a boat trip for the day. The suggestion of you all going skinnydipping comes up. I'd be wondering just who suggested this and why, but, would again quite happily strip off and have no worries with being naked Situation 6: You are with a group of complete strangers of both sexes on a boat trip for the day. ( think package deal vacation) The idea of you all going skinnydipping comes up. If I was alone I'd maybe feel slightly self conscious but if I was with someone I knew then It would be no problem Situation 7: You are with a group of complete strangers, all male, on a boat trip for the day. ( think package deal vacation )The suggestion of you all going skinnydipping comes up. Much easier to get naked for me in front of other guys than it is for me to be naked in front of female strangers, so again no problem with getting naked Situation 8: You are at a garden party with some close friends of both sexes. When everybody have had a few drinks, and are feeling the effects of the alcohol, somebody suggests you all get naked and jump in the pool. One guy goes first and you can see that he is clearly smaller than you are in the trouser department. size of other guys doesn't bother me in the least, I'd be second in the pool Situation 9: You are at a garden party with some close friends of both sexes. When everybody have had a few drinks, and are feeling the effects of the alcohol, somebody suggests you all get naked and jump in the pool. One guy goes first and you can see that he is clearly bigger than you are in the trouser department. again no problem getting naked regardlesss of anyones size Situation 10: You are at a garden party with some close friends of both sexes. When everybody have had a few drinks, and are feeling the effects of the alcohol, somebody suggests you all get naked and jump in the pool. One guy goes first and you can see that he is very close in size to you in the trouser department. party time Please remember to include your age, flaccid size, erect size and your country of residence in your reply. age: 39 flaccid: around 4 or 5 soft depending on weather mood etc. erect: 6.25 inches country: Scotland |
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