i,m a 55 year old gay man living in rural upstate new york--i have my own business and lots of friends (99% of them are strait)--i didn,t come out till i was 40 but still managed to have an incredible amount of sex (i grew up on long island so there were gay bars and nyc was just a 45 minute ride on the long island railroad)--my first orgasm was when i was about 6 or 7--i was shimmying up a pole that held a basketball net when all of a sudden this unbelievable sensation started happening between...