I read a few posts about the communal showers and if it bothers you about seeing other men's package in the shower at the locker room. For years, I wasn't comfortable with it, until I began dating (late bloomer) and four consecutive women told me that I was the biggest they'd seen. One even went so far as to say I was twice the size of her ex. Those compliments went a long way in boosting my self esteem. I also got a lot of leers and stares at the local spa. Men started complimenting me on...

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