Third date looks to be a go
Posted 10-14-2008 at 08:16 PM by bguy
I waited a few days to call E (was busy most of the time anyway with other dates, friends, etc.) Got her voicemail (as usual), told her I was thinking we could go to a comedy club in 'the city' (45-50 min. drive) later this week if she's available.
She texted me back Monday evening:
Hey you! I got your message from yesterday but it cut in and out so I didn't understand. I heard something about the city lol I couldn't understand anything else. How was your weekend?
I texted her back that same night:
I guess my phone needs cleaning... My weekend had some unexpected highs and lows thanks to the weather. Was thinking it'd be fun to go to a comedy club later this week (there's one in the city). P.S. my time of birth was about 8 a.m. Hope that doesn't mean I'm cursed.
The latter part is in reference to a dicussion we'd had on the previous date (and some of the e-mails leading up to the first date), because she has an interest in astrology and had mentioned charting me if I knew that information.
Today I got a text reply:
Hey bguy. Yes a comedy club sounds like fun! I know which one you're talking about. Would u like me to e-mail your birth chart again? Should be interesting!
Does Friday evening work for you? And yes do e-mail the chart, I'm interested. My real address is ...
Friday sounds good. I'll email your info. I hope you're having a great day :)
So it looks like a third date is going to happen. I think there's sufficient interest on her part at this point so I'm resolved to go for the kiss.
She texted me back Monday evening:
Hey you! I got your message from yesterday but it cut in and out so I didn't understand. I heard something about the city lol I couldn't understand anything else. How was your weekend?
I texted her back that same night:
I guess my phone needs cleaning... My weekend had some unexpected highs and lows thanks to the weather. Was thinking it'd be fun to go to a comedy club later this week (there's one in the city). P.S. my time of birth was about 8 a.m. Hope that doesn't mean I'm cursed.
The latter part is in reference to a dicussion we'd had on the previous date (and some of the e-mails leading up to the first date), because she has an interest in astrology and had mentioned charting me if I knew that information.
Today I got a text reply:
Hey bguy. Yes a comedy club sounds like fun! I know which one you're talking about. Would u like me to e-mail your birth chart again? Should be interesting!
Does Friday evening work for you? And yes do e-mail the chart, I'm interested. My real address is ...
Friday sounds good. I'll email your info. I hope you're having a great day :)
So it looks like a third date is going to happen. I think there's sufficient interest on her part at this point so I'm resolved to go for the kiss.
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 |  The advice I've gotten is get it over with early in the date, when she's not expecting it. Look for an opportunity, maybe when you are close together and laughing or joking. Don't build it up as a big thing for the end of the date. Good luck to you. I want to hear how this goes. |
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| |   You haven't kissed yet? What are you waiting for!? I wish you luck, it's a shame to let such a beautiful cock go to waste.  If my guy had waited until the third date to kiss me, there would have been no 3rd date. As I would have assumed he didn't like me 'that way'. Fortunately, I kissed him at the end of the first date and we've been together ever since.   |
| Updated 10-15-2008 at 01:13 AM by njqt466 |
| |  bguy...you are on your way to getting laid...what is your next game plan when she see's your monster johnson???....good luck...and have fun w/her at the club... |
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You haven't kissed yet? What are you waiting for!?
As was noted in another thread, friends don't kiss each other (at least not guy friends). |
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| | I'm never sure exactly what women mean by being friends first. I think you would need to know her dating history to figure it out. I would guess that many guys have wanted to get to the sex right away. Also, kissing is a big deal to some people but not to others. One little kiss could just be a way of telling her you like her. Actions sometimes speak louder than words. Just play it by ear after you kiss her. If she is surprised just joke and say you just want her to know that you like her. I'm sure she's figuring there's a chance you will try to kiss her on this date and she is going on the date knowing there is that chance. So don't worry about it. If she were to complain about receiving a kiss on a third date then she will have a hard time dating 99% of men. Good luck! |
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