I agree with both ladies posting. I think men who cum quickly during sex the first time is very flattering and should not be seen as a bad thing at all. It is only annoying when it happens repeatedly time after time.


Also continuous pounding away trying to last record times is boring. My husband lasts a long time because I am very multi orgasmic and I cum up to 20 times if it is not a quickie. I don't dry up.

However a lot of women are happy with one or two orgams. I think as long as she is satisfied, your job is done.

I think the more relevant questions to find out if you are a good lover would be

How long do you spend on foreplay on average, not based on execeptional sessions???


That is how women will guage how good you are in bed.

x

Honey