anal with a dude?????

chadstallion · 08-22-2008

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Originally Posted by sexplease

well, perhaps you could top, then bottom, or bottom then top, rinse and repeat and report back to us.

are we talking about shampooing or fucking here ..

Irish · 08-22-2008

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Originally Posted by bigboner69

how is it how does it feel tips???

The correct number of question marks, but the positioning is all screwed up.

novice_btm · 08-22-2008

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Originally Posted by bigboner69

how is it how does it feel...

I always describe it as...

"Have you ever had a professional massage? Well, it's kinda like that. If they start aggressively, it can really hurt. It's that same kind of sensation, it does ache a little bit, but it also feels really good, and once you loosen up, they can really go at you, and it feels amazing. You'll be a sore afterwards too, but it's a 'good' sore."

nanouk · 08-23-2008

I guess I was very lucky since I had the pleasure of being introduced to gay sex by a very loving, and considerate slightly older cousin. He was very patient and as we grew up together we grew closer and did more things sexually so that I have never had a hangup about hetro or homosexual sexual relationships. Only a year older, his sister soon joined us to complete my introduction to both side of the sexual coin, so to speak. Those are stories that I may write about here once I write them down so I get the facts straight.

Suggestions for sex with another man: patience, consideration, cleanliness and a sense of humor.

bi_toddca · 08-23-2008

Even after I started experimenting with guy sex, it took me quite a while before I took a dick up my ass. The first few attempts were a disaster. Lots of pain, lost my hardon, once I nearly passed out it hurt so much.

Then finally a guy spent a lot of time with me and showed me how to relax and open up my ass - and he used lots of lube. when he finally got inside me, it was like i was in another world. i shot really fast, and the orgasm i had was incredibly intense. i have loved taking a dick ever since.

husky14620 · 08-29-2008

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Originally Posted by ballsaplenty2156

I tried it once about two years ago. It wasn't near as painful as i thought it would be, but I didn't really get much pleasure out of it at all. The dude I gave it up to, didn't last very long, tops two minutes once he got in. He kept moaning how tight I was, and how much tighter I was than a girl.
I can tell you it was not for me. I've fucked a few dudes and about three girls in the ass, They seemed to enjoy it more than I did for my time on the bottom. The guys really enjoyed it more than the girls.
I had a bad time with it emotionally and psychologically. I felt a real loss of "manhood", for lack of a better word. I'm bi and am very comfortable with that, but taking it in the ass for me was a step I shouldn't have taken so cavalierly. Be prepared for some backlash emotionally unless you're doing it with someone you truly care about. I did it just to try it and was really disappointed in myself afterwards.

I am sorry for you that your first experience on the receiving side wasn't wonderful. For me, the top's technique is a factor on how much I enjoy it. The top needs to understand the anatomy of stimulation involved, not just fuck away...

Also, the physical feelings are much more intense if there is the emotional attachment is present as well. Perhaps you will enjoy it more later, with another partner to whom you are more emotionally attached.

Please don't let this one less than world rocking experience stop you from trying again in the future, when the time is right. As a 100% gay 95% bottom, I can attest that it CAN be the most wonderful thing in the world, when it is RIGHT.

anal with a dude?????

Originally Posted by sexplease well, perhaps you could top, then bottom, or bottom then top, rinse and repeat and report back to us. are we talking about shampooing or fucking here ..