In this case I really don't like labels, because "Labels" are the problem.

We have been told that to be this is such-in-such, and to be that is something else. These beliefs have been taught to us from infancy and have become a part of our being and our social rules. Some are good and some are, maybe, not so good. Love is good (but only with those that have been deemed acceptable, such as a man and woman), murder is wrong, yes. Charity is good, yes. ETC. These labels have been buried deep into the psyche telling us what is right and what is wrong, etc. and we blindly follow because we are worried what others will think or do.

But, sex is an emotion that people should be allowed to enjoy. There are so many taboos about sex and they have caused untold heartaches and sorrow, and for some even death because they were unable to live in a world that forbids them to feel and enjoy love for another of their choice. And, yes, there has even been murders because people "hate" another's choice of loving another. Why do we not just let our feelings for another happen, no matter if it is the "right" person, or "correct" sex? Wouldn't the world be a much better place without all this hate?

I sort of got off the subject with my rants. I enjoy sex with both male and female and I don't think it is anyones business but myself and the person with whom I am with.

So, superswinger, there is no reason why you can't enjoy the beauty of a man's dick as well as a womans love lips. Go for it!