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Originally Posted by LemacST  But yeah, about girls and how graphic they get with their stories...kind of a turn off to be honest.
One time, this gross girl who I was unfortunate enough to be seeing for a while went into great detail about her very limited sex life. It was her, I and three other friends of ours. She was basically the ring leader and she talked about how huge one guy was where "it didn't work at first", how small another guy was where she "couldn't even feel it", among other more personal details that others didn't want to her. She was under the impression that I'm very promiscuous (and I am not) so I could tell she was saying those things because a)she thought she'd look cool and look like she knew what she was talking about and b)she was trying to make me jelous because I wasn't giving her the attention that she craved.
I never ended up having sex with her but we did other things which proved to me that she would of been a TERRIBLE lay. She was a really gross, sloppy, breathy, horrible kisser, was clumbsy, failed at trying to be dominant (which turns me off anyway, I like girls who are more submissive) among other things.
But see, I would not share these kinds of things with my friends. I just don't care here because this is LPSG. She definitely DID share all my private information, good or bad ("bad" probably being her downtalking my size, as I remember her doing that to her ex who allegedly was "huge" while she dated him then once they broke up he was "small", heh). I can't believe I got in the mix with her. Besides sexually being a bad partner, she was also a sour, broken-souled bitch ever. I can't think of anyone that really likes her, she's really that big of a bitch.
Sorry for steering away from the topic! I just had to let that out :P |
I think your story is a little different than the normal sharing girls do. Most girls share with their close girlfriends, not out with the guy they are talking about and mutual friends. Nor are they going to discuss how big or small another boyfriend was outside of their circle unless they have an ulterior motive.
And, it sounds like there were other issues. One, you thought she was "gross", which she probably picked up on in some way, and two, you believe she downtalked your size, probably because you knew on some level that she realized how you really felt which caused her to be negative towards you as well.
And, since you found her unappealing, most guys are not going to share that with their buddies. I think you would have reacted differently if she had been someone who really turned you on and you were proud of, and she was bragging about how great you were.