I'm on the small side, about 4" hard, and I was ridiculed twice when I was younger. Once by a woman I was dating in college (this ended the dating) and another by a woman a few years later. After a certain age the teasing by women seemed to stop but I still get an occasional chuckle by someone next to me in the men's room when the see me soft. It's not really ridicule and no comments are made, just occassional chuckles.

I'm way past the age of worrying about what other people think so it doesn't really bother me anymore.