Holy Crap, ZOS23xy.......that's a shitload of stuff to have survived !!
Our parents had already passed on when my one sibling, my older brother, was killed almost instantly by a drunk driver.
One of my husband's uncles commited suicide.
A high school friend was killed in a crash one month after graduation.
A friend's only son was murdered. His son was around 20.
One of my husband's cousins died of an accidental/unintentional combination of prescription drugs that were lethal taken together.
A friend from junior high school was in her 20's when she died of a burst aneurysm in her brain.
She just went home from work early one day with a bad headache.
She was found in bed with the phone in her hand the next morning.