Thread: How do you feel about the comments on your pics?
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Old 08-19-2007   #8 (permalink)
njqt466
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Originally Posted by Calboner View Post
If you have a gallery, how do you feel about the comments on your pics? I like the positive ones but the negative ones do hurt. Are you gratified by them or do you not much care? I am gratified. Those of you who have received a large number of comments on your pics, do you eventually lose interest in reading them? Nope, but I don't get that many comments.

Speaking for myself, I have to say that I have been hugely gratified to read the comments on my pictures, especially the ones that seemed as if some special thought went into them. (I have spent most of my life as a scrawny guy and am still socially awkward, so being thought "hot" is a comparatively recent development that I am far from being used to!) So far, I am always excited when I see that someone has posted a new comment. This has led me to start posting comments on a lot of other members' pics when I liked them, since I assume that others will appreciate them much as I do. But then I wonder if they necessarily do so.
I have had self-esteem and body issues since well before I entered puberty. With every year I mature and grow as a person I learn self-acceptance.

There have been about 3 or 4, 100% gay men (They know who they are) who felt the need to make horribly cruel, hateful, and rude criticisms of my pussy in my gallery comments. I wish to hell they wouldn't look.

I have made a few negative comments in gallerys but ONLY when they were obviously photoshopped or stolen from another member or porn site. I would never dream of leaving a comment that a mans cock was ugly or too small or too big.

Off Topic: I don't think it's a mistake that the people who make rude comments NEVER have a gallery or a profile. IMHO if you can't be bothered to show and tell as I do you should not be allowed into chat nor should you be allowed to post gallery comments. I t's cowardice combined with hatefulness that makes it so hurtful.