Well, I would say I've been much more envied by men, not really rediculed. But, women have been a different matter. I used to work as a male entertainer for many years...and one female dancer (who I really had a "crush" on) let me know right off the bat that I didn't stand a chance with her...the first thing she said to me was..."You'd split in me half with that thing"...also, another said " You don't expect to get my mouth around that, do you...?" So being "big" has its advatages in the locker room, but not necessarily in the bedroom