What is my Gay/Straight % ratio?

625girth · 07-29-2008

20 times in 12 years??? me and the wife used to fuck that much in a week easy. sheesh!!! maybe cause I'm straight, I don't have to debate on which way I want to go to have sex. so I'm banging that pussy while you 60/40, 50/50, 30/70 dudes are still trying to make up your mind.

Xcuze · 07-29-2008

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Originally Posted by 625girth

20 times in 12 years??? me and the wife used to fuck that much in a week easy. sheesh!!! maybe cause I'm straight, I don't have to debate on which way I want to go to have sex. so I'm banging that pussy while you 60/40, 50/50, 30/70 dudes are still trying to make up your mind.

Im just grateful you didnt advise him to see a therapist like all the other misguided souls on this thread He needs to fuck a therapist not speak to one. Preferably an older male one by the sounds of it! If he likes the taste then its problem solved.

Tom Acqua · 07-29-2008

100% gay in love with himself, and better do something before is too late, at least try it once! relastin and creams don't work when you'll be old, and you don't want to realize that when is too late. If you like so much a cock... try it!

Notaguru2 · 07-29-2008

Honestly? You're a 100%er. Look, you don't even talk about whether you are attracted to your wife or not. You speak of sex as some sort of means to reproduction. Everything else is about gay porn and whacking off to men.

Do your wife a favor; divorce her and let her find the man she thought she was marrying and go find you a partner (the man you want).

If she's only had sex with you less than 20 times in 12 years... other men have been tapping it to fill that void for her on an emotional/physical level. Why else do you think she hasn't left?

Seriously, you're 100% gay; be proud and make it known (btw, she also knows - she's waiting on you to make a move).

spanky1998 · 07-29-2008

Boy you guys are harsh!! The so called 100 percent straight are full of shit. No straight guy would join lpsg. I would never join big tit support group. If you are in this group you want to look at cock, hook up or meet other confused dudes like myself. I am bieng honest. Who the hell am trying to impress? No one here knows me, if I wanted to make shit up I could do a much better job. It would be more interesting. For the queers (I use the term with endearment) most you circut guys are either high on drugs, bitter about life, liars, manipulators, jealous beings who live their lives selfously for the moment until they are too old (40) to hook anymore. I have been to many gay clubs and have become more than aware that I could never be with you. So, don't be hating on me bitches!!!!

ZOS23xy · 07-29-2008

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Originally Posted by XCUZE

You say I am who I am but that seems to be your problem; you dont know who you are! You use terms that I only know gay people to know or use. Then you boast about aspects of your life as though you feel a need to impress. Your wife being hot is irrelevant. Im confused by your motives for posting this. Ive always assumed sexuality was entirely instinctive. Your dick should give you an indication of how attracted you are to someone; if its pointing north then you wanna hit it. Lets not complicate things. Its only social conformity that clouds the issue. This is where your real problem probably lies. Maybe you just dont have the balls to be your real self?

His motive is to untangle the threads and unknot the mess: with all the items he has described, he sounds like a bit of writing about himself will help clear up his stalling points. He still loves his wife. He needs to know if he loves himself.

He needs to write back.

ZOS23xy · 07-29-2008

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Originally Posted by spanky1998

Boy you guys are harsh!! The so called 100 percent straight are full of shit. No straight guy would join lpsg. I would never join big tit support group. If you are in this group you want to look at cock, hook up or meet other confused dudes like myself. I am bieng honest. Who the hell am trying to impress? No one here knows me, if I wanted to make shit up I could do a much better job. It would be more interesting. For the queers (I use the term with endearment) most you circut guys are either high on drugs, bitter about life, liars, manipulators, jealous beings who live their lives selfously for the moment until they are too old (40) to hook anymore. I have been to many gay clubs and have become more than aware that I could never be with you. So, don't be hating on me bitches!!!!

Are they harsh? Yes, they are, but they see points about you that you have written that do not sound like a whole man would carry about. Most of the guys here are not on drugs, not that old, and not bitter. Most of them can write well enough to be carried in newspapers, and i suspect a handful of them do.

The liars and manipulators get banned. Take it easy and ask yourself very carefully--why does what (-----) wrote about me upset me. It is either near the truth or not the truth. You can look at it with honest intent and say, no, this is me/ this is not me.

Don't start a thread asking for some comments and when someone points out the inconsistant bits, get all riled up and begin name calling.

You wanted answers. You started the thread asking for help, insights wanted, what should I do...

You don't need to take everything to heart. I see that the few items you wrote about your wife are very loving and she must mean a lot to you.

So ignore the guys who suggest a divorce.

Lng_1 · 07-29-2008

I believe you need to speak to your wife. Tell her. Get help for co-parenting the kids as divorced parents-- because you probably need to be divorced. You and your wife and more importantly your children should see two people who really love each other, not the facade you and your wife have portrayed. Be honest with yourself and each other. Living a lie, is not living at all!

BBTM · 07-29-2008

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Okay.... Well, I guess I sound kinda fucked up? Check this out: * I have never had a. substance abuse problem
* I have never been arrested
* I am an attorney from a top. 10 law school * I have 2 BA's 1 MA and a JD * I speak 4 languages fluently * I have lived in 4 countries * I was a personal trainer in the early 90's and modled for Claude Montana in Vouge Hommes in 1988 and yes I have a dick larger than 7 inches. However, I am or was, still am, way too vain. I am terrified of getting old and loosing my looks. Therefore, in the last 3 years I have had 2 hair transplants, liposuction of thighs, back, sides, neck. Botox, restalayne, veneers and expensive creams. Total so far 47K.. I am a shopaholic, did steroids in the early 90's (hence the hair lossa) codepedant, have ADD, a closet smoker. Shit! I have just come out naked too you all. Oh, I hate posers, wana be's and liars. You guys, I am not a sad closet case. I have just not met any man since 1994 who was worth spilling my jizz on. He was the one real pasionate love of my life. We never had sex, but it was the most passionate love affair. Now he was fucked up.! But what a body and never have I met a more masculine man in my life. He told me that he could not live with out me. But his father forced him to stop talking to me. I have never been so devestated. He's married and living in Indiana. I should call him. Enough... I really do sound crazy now. I don't give a shit. I am who I am. Oh, don't feel bad about my wife. Believe me I am the perfect man for her. Any other man would have dvorced her years ago. She is hot. A wet dream to any straight man. 5 ft 4 97 lbs, 34DD (implants) makes more than me, looks like a movie star and dresses like one (thanks to me) but completely not into sex. I would fuck her if she was into it. Anyway, I just want to meet a cool dude who is smart and not a freak! Peace and happyness to all....

So you just wanted to know your gay/straight % huh? I think you have it close to accurate from what you have written. But I have to comment...I would say you were the type of person who tried to keep yourself busy most of your life to "run away or escape" your tendencies. I was heading down the same path, except I took the more religious way. More power to you for the long ass time you and your wife have been together! I really do commend you. I really hope you find that man just as I have. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. Hit me us sometime if you wanna chat.

T

CALAMBO · 07-29-2008

sorry about your un-happy life...but you know you are the only one who can make the changes needed to make you a happy person...seems you are highly educated and i believe you know what you need to do...do it and get on with your life...but do not become harsh towards the folks giving thier opinion, you ask for it, only you can choose to absorb parts or not...good luck and life is short, you and your wife and children deserve to be happy...best wishes

Rikter8 · 07-29-2008

Divorce her. When you take your half, Make sure you take One implant.
Totally fuck up her barbie world.

Sounds like to me she just in it for the money.

I would suggest you see a psychiatrist or psychologist to help sort out your affairs.

matticus201 · 07-29-2008

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Originally Posted by spanky1998

Boy you guys are harsh!! The so called 100 percent straight are full of shit. No straight guy would join lpsg. I would never join big tit support group. If you are in this group you want to look at cock, hook up or meet other confused dudes like myself. I am bieng honest. Who the hell am trying to impress? No one here knows me, if I wanted to make shit up I could do a much better job. It would be more interesting. For the queers (I use the term with endearment) most you circut guys are either high on drugs, bitter about life, liars, manipulators, jealous beings who live their lives selfously for the moment until they are too old (40) to hook anymore. I have been to many gay clubs and have become more than aware that I could never be with you. So, don't be hating on me bitches!!!!

So I'm going to ignore the obvious, and quite frankly offensive, stereotyping here and just address your issue. You've obviously got a very skewed view of what it means to be gay. I know a ton of people, and none of them are "circuit boys." It's unfortunate that you are allowing your opinions of a small minority fuel a pretty blatant valley of self hatred. Only a small part of the population enjoys these types of large parties and a little extracurricular fun. More power to them. This segment, however, represents only a small part of the gay population, albeit a gloriously fun and necessary one. Things would be mighty boring if we were all the same. Besides, your assertation that all "circuit boys" are "liars, manipulators, etc.." can't be all true, because we're all different. We all need to try remembering that a small group doesn't dictate the mandate of the whole.

Now, I have to say that if your situation is indeed as you say it is, I feel for you. Coming out and admiting homosexuality is hard for a lot of people. Not only is it *still* maligned by a large portion of our country, it involves self-discovery, and that is never easy. I pretty much agree with all comments here. Your "percentage" doesn't really mean anything. What matters is that you find some way to be okay with whatever demons you may be carrying, and to love yourself first. The rest will follow.

Good luck, and I hope things get better.

hootie · 07-29-2008

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Originally Posted by XCUZE

Agreed. But Im 100% certain I could never lick a pussy. If that makes me stagnant then so be it.

Well, I don't think I could do that or rim. I must be dead.

Xcuze · 07-29-2008

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Well, I don't think I could do that or rim. I must be dead.

Rim you say? Didn't someone start a thread on that very subject once upon a time? Cant think who.....

blooeyz · 07-29-2008

I empathize with you.
Please realize you are not alone.
You've recieved a lot of good insight already.

What are you unhappy with in your life?
Once you figure that out, you need to make changes, whether it is therapy to help with self esteem or an honest discussion with your wife to clear the air about your expectation of your marriage.

PM me if you'd like to talk privately.