Kinky.

Men are always asking us questions about this stuff on here. But -I- want to know what you all think.

What, to you ladies, constitutes kinky? What's the kinkiest kink there is? Is it something you'd never do or have secretly fantasized about?

I just wondered. I'm pretty sure I'm a freak any way you put it, but it's nice to get others' opinions.

Having sex on horseback, being handcuffed and whipped with a crop or flogger.

Kinky depends on the person. Some people think anal is kinky or getting a facial. Those are normal to me. I may not be the best person to answer since I tend to be a bit perverted.

*lol* That's why I'm asking, Wonderland. I have the same problem.

I don't think it is really is a problem. As long as what you are doing doesn't interfere in your life or hurt people.
The only fantasy that I have that I would never do is be in a gang bang. Not because I think it is kinky but because I know I would feel bad about myself after I did it.

This site tends to be rather vanilla.

Other than "normal kink" (as mentioned above: anal, facials, which are so mainstream that they aren't kinky anymore), this site is not that receptive of kink.

I do threesomes and although people don't wag a finger at me about it anymore, they still issue dire warnings to people contemplating that kind of thing. (Happened just the other day: Would you do it?)

BUT, other than threesomes, I don't talk about my sex life or fantasies here. Surprisingly Puritanical here.

Puritanical?

The buckles... the stocks....the big red letter A's

Hmmm, sounds kinky...

I am hearing you both. From my own point of view I think certain things are private and should remain private. I don't mind talking about sexual techniques in practical terms but I will never talk about the nitty gritty of my sex life, how I do things in bed, the guy I am with or my fantasies. I don't think that's anyone's business but mine (hence I get annoyed by all the intrusive questions that show up in this forum)...

Kink involves feathers, perversion the whole bird.

Oh.... and don't forget the stuffing...

LOL... haven't tried that. Got some pointers??!



Hear, hear! (Or maybe more appropriately, here, here!)

Mmmm...now, where exactly can I find you?

Pointers? Other than lock you in the stocks and have at either end?

How can you tell when a Gold digger is excited?

Her nipples get erect and point at Doctors and Lawyers.

Joliet

Maybe you ladies aren't visiting sex with a large penis enough. I think it gets pretty fucking kinky in there.

And I'd also like to say, I find it a tad frustrating that kinky IS defined as whips, chains and leather, BDSM, or sado-masochism. I call that pain.

To me, kinky can be going beyond what porn displays, but still keeping it sexual. In my opinion, pain is only one branch of kink, as is role play and various other philias.