I`m still here because i do love her and i wouldn`t want someone to just bail on me, i treat her with the respect that i would want her to give me, i want her to get therapy. I dont think she`s ever had reall love and i`m trying my best to show her what love is, she`s always telling me about how messed up her ex`s were, i know thats got to have something to do with it. She picks relationships that wont work out so she doesnt have to really love them, someone really hurt her in the past. What messed her up is she probly thought that of me and she didn`t realize that i do counciling for others. Her old ways backfired on her and she`s forced to look at herself wich she doesnt want to do. Theres a reason why her family keeps a distance, they already knew, she`s always blamed her behavior on the men she`s been with and she cant do that now so her excusses are gone. What she needs is a good old fashioned intervention with people who love her.


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