Right now i`m just biteing my tong, i don`t want to say anything to her that i might regret, no matter how she treats me i`m going to be kind to her, and treat her how i`d like to be treated. Right now she`s takeing pictures of her self to put on her site. I`m all for it, since i give her all my support and love, i hope she`s not just trying to do it out of spite though, that would be for the wrong reasons, i`m not the jelous type, lifes too short. But know this, i am taking all your suggestions to heart, i appreciate them emencly, i need all the advice from my friends i can get so i can make a rational decision thats not based just on what i think, i could be in the wrong so i have to give her that chance of probability, plus it wouldn`t be fair to her if i didn`t seek solutions rather than dwell in the problem, thus feeding on them, and in the end making a rash decision. I wouldn`t want someone to just run off from me without first trying to find a solution that could restore the peace.

lafever