Oh c'mon now. A few times a year its fun to get slutted up a bit. Bright lipstick, a little body glitter brushed into your cleavage, maybe even a little red lipstick on your nipples, a skirt too short and heels too high, nice cocktails, and guys dressed GQ is not gonna kill anyone.

After sex the next morning and room service breakfast in the hotel, with champagne mimosas for 2, throw on whole wheat hiking shoes, hair in a pony tail, fresh scrubbed face and no make up and walk a city park or hit an art museum.

Isn't there room for both?

BTW hot lipstick on occasion is FUN.