Hey, Kooby!
Let me be the 7th one in your first thread to welcome you to the neighborhood. I understand about wanting to test the waters before you dive right in. I think I did the same thing when I first joined this place.
I'm intrigued by your story because you obviously need to share it but I'm not prying of course.
So, take your time. Make your candid introductions on your own schedule and it'll go from there. You have my complete attention and total lack of 'judginess'. We are all just a post or private message away!

P. S. I love well dressed men...it's so attractive.
