Yeah. There's alot of cruising that goes on in gym saunas and stuff. There's also hidden language and "movements" that people do to suggest that they are interested in more than just to relax.

As many guys who cruise places, their horniness blinds their discernment and for that matter, discretion. They figure if you're gonna let it hang out there, you shouldn't be mad that they're staring.

Even though I do like to cruise, I completely disagree with that notion. If I don't want you to look, I don't want you to look. You should respect that regardless of where I am. Public or private.

I've had times where I had to actually get loud with that person so they would finally leave me alone. It doesn't really help you get any because everyone thinks you're crazy, but at least that person is off your jock...literally.