Anal first timer

ok to make my first time anal exp. even more nerve wracking I told my guy he could do me in the butt after I did him... to my suprise he said yes. we ordered a strap-on that is his size (kinda big) and got it in the mail today. So my questions are should I use my hand on him while using the strap on, or can a guy cum just doing anal? And what should I do to prep my self to take him? He is about 9.5 in long and 3.5 in wide... at least that is the size of the attatchment he got (just got it in the mail today and about right).

so any advice would be great... part of me is more nervou about "fucking" him

Relax and go slow slow slow and lots of lube. Start on top then you will have more control. As for toys with him do the same.

Most importantly for the both of you is lube. With anal it is essential. Also a lot of forplay and use your fingers or smaller toys to stretch yourself out before any penetration.You want need to jack him off or anything, let him take care of that as he'll know what he feels like having done. If he asks you to then sure, go ahead. Going to the toilet before is a great idea and, not only for hygiene but to get the area working. And ive always found a warm bath or shower beforehand helps to relax everything.


And the most crucial thing. Dont believe what you see in porn. You cant just ram it in there and expect it not to hurt. Start slow, pushing in deeper little by little and only once you feel the muscles relax the start thrusting.

Dont be nervous, it wont hurt as much as you think