Some Answers for a young guy about wanking

So Im in college and me and my roommate jerk off quite a bit....maybe once a day alone and then twice together...obviously its nothing sexual although he is huge and incredibly hot....but it usually takes him ten minutes to jerk off and me 40 minutes.....why is there such a big difference...having had sex...I would believe that 40 minutes is a much better time then 10....why does it take so long for me

Myabe your a bit shy to het horny around other guys? Don't mind that it takes longer for you, if you get to finish what you started it isn't all that bad. And don't forget, when you have sex, the girls/guys like it more that you can hold it up for 40 minutes in stead of 10 minutes !
Don't mind man!

I squeeze one out in 5 minutes if I really want to when I'm wanking, with sex I can go on for hours if I want to. Generally I finish alot quicker when I wank compared to fucking....I don't think the two are related...

I would have said 10 mins is about an average wanking time - is it not?

at times I force myself to hold off cumming for at least 15 minutes.....On average, my wank times are around 25-30 minutes, unless I'm in a hurry, or trying to shoot a huge load

Don't sweat it, in short. Your masturbatory preferences are yours and yours alone, and if your buddy prefers a shorter session, he doesn't deserve any ridicule either. You might consider approaching it casually and asking him if you can come together, if that's what you're looking for. Chances are he'd be willing to oblige, though you should realize that it might mean you shortening your time as well as him extending his.

I think it's fucking cool that you have someone to jerk off with, and you're both comfortable with it. Who cares who cums first. Just enjoy the fact that you've got a good buddy.

Ever heard the phrase "Different Strokes for Different Folks"?

Probably for the first 10-15 minutes, you're focused mostly on him getting his pleasure.
Then you probably mentally run through his j/o while stroking your own cock, that's another 10-15 minutes. Maybe your pleasure trigger is a little tighter than his. Either way, I wouldn't be embarrassed about it unless he's complaining about you taking so long. If he isn't, maybe he's really enjoying the show you're putting on. Ask him to reach over and tickle your nuts to get you off.

I've got to tell you, 40 minutes seems like an awfully long time. When I'm jacking off, I'm usually just looking to get off maybe 5-10 minutes (unless you count surfing the Internet for porn as part of it).

Also, when I was your age, it wasn't unsual to jack off 3 times a day. For you dude, that would be like two hours - that's like 15% of your waking hours. Who has that kind of time?

Seriously, when you're alone, does it take that long?

Here's an idea. Before you two sit down next time, order a pizza. When he finishes he can go pick it up. When he gets back, you'll be ready.

it takes me like 20 min sometimes longer if I am edging

Don't give yourself a complex about this. Maybe you are focusing too much of your attention on him during the initial stages and after he has cum you refocus. Concentrate on the sensations that you are experiencing while you watch your roommate. I assume that your goal is to cum about the same time that he does.
When I j/o I just enjoy the sensations and let it happen. I normally go for about 15 minutes before I cannot hold back any longer. Hope my comments are of some help to you.

When I was a teen, I would jack off and cum with a half hard cock. The feeling as I cummed was great.