It can be combined to have a greeeeeat orgasm! That's the foreplay all about, u can begin having a lot of touching, kissing, rubbing, sucking and actually have an orgasm without any penetration. In the case of my BF and myself, I love to give him a looong BJ session and edging him. Some times he just drip a small (very small) amount of cum but still very hard after that. And on the other side... having sex you can edge also, if u change from time to time the 'pumping speed' hehe u can achieve greaaaat results ;)
However the more important point here is... know ur own body and if is the case know the body and reactions of your boyfriend, girlfriend, fuck buddy... etc.. hehe
Peace! |