Do you think their gross? Do they all look ugly to you?
Like some men, there are women who can be gross. Other than those exceptions, I find women (and some men) not so gross. I don't want to have sex with women at all. And I hope that women don't think that it is a discount. But it isn't the end of the world because I don't find women and some men attractive.
I ask this, because I think all guys are pretty ugly. Some people are easier to look at, sure, but for the most part guys are ugly and gross.
I will say this. There are some men I find attractive that I am aroused sexually by. Then, I have met some hot and ugly guys who were appealing but their personalities were so uptight and unappealing that I was really turned off to the point of disassociation. I didn't lose any sleep over it.
I don't like being touched by people. Guys, ugly girls (or super fat ones) (i know I'm a jerk, but im ugly so i can say that).
Yeah, I understand that. People with unknown chis...you don't want them touching you. I don't go out of my way in touching people. Even at the gay bar, I don't touch people. If I warm up to people and people are receptive--they may get a good hug.
People call me a homophobe because I don't like guys to touch me. Although no girls touch me, i have had fat ugly ones touch me and i cringe because I feel like they want me and I don't like being wanted by somebody unnatractive.
Dilemma: Well, if you are unattractive--how are these ugly guys and girls touching you? If you are unappealing to me, you won't get as much as a handshake...or no handshake at all. Maybe, your isolation is making you feel unloved and angry. Ugly people can't be choosers in the game of love. I am not telling you to settle with the unappealing. But that is a truth. People do need to feel like they belong sometimes. If you aren't respectful to the unappealing, then, you aren't worthy of the same respect by your unappealing peers.
Among straight guys, at least in my experience, the only reason you really touch another guy, is to pretend you are gay. Thats all I see among the males I know. Its ALWAYS a game of how gay can you be, without actually being gay lol.
And sometimes, straight men are damn foolish like that. Touching for pretension of gaiety. 
If they wanna "gay compete"...why not do a drag show? Why not put their hard cocks in each other's mouths? Put each other's cocks in each other's assholes? That is pure gay. Oh, do it in front of your girlfriends and wives. That competition just jumped to high extreme proportions. Hehehe.
When I feel warm skin, I want it to be the soft warm skin of a smooth hot sexy female, not all hairy and gross of a man. I'm sorry I don't like it.
That is great. As long as I do have to feel the soft suppleness of a female on me...I will take that hairy guy right off of your hands.
I don't hate gay people, I have a very good friend who is gay and I love the guy to death (hope he dont die! lol) And I would not mind if he got me in a headlock or grabbed my shoulder or tried to squeeze me to death in a bear hug (has happened lol). Or to console me if I'm down.
I don't hate straight people. I have many great friends who are straight and I love them all. I hope that they are well. But I have a real problem with the people I know touching me all the damn time, and they call me a homophobe, even though I get called queer all the time because I like cats and stupid shit like that. Such hypocrits.
Back in highschool my friends would make up gay little hand shakes where we would like stroke eachothers arms like we liked eachother and stuff, and that was fine I thought it was fun. Well, maybe you should cease with "faggot" and "queer"--you may get perceived as homophobic. I know plenty of straight guys who like cats. Assigning masculine levels, their owners and their domesticated animals is stupid. Assumptions are not truths. I think maybe its just the current group of people I know, they are the women in front of stove, men drinkin beer, watching football, and fishing guys, any other way of thought makes you a fag, and all fags should die and go to hell. But then they come and tell me my hair is soft and touch me n poke me n shit and call me a homophobe when I get pissed at them. Maybe you need to be with some better friends and family.
Now I change my mind, I kinda answered my own question. I think its the fact that these people do these things on purpose, rather than my real friends who were just joking around and being fun. I know my old friends had no problem with gay people and werent narrow minded, football loving cat hating, assholes. Now that I think back, if we had to sit close or whatever there was no problem. But these new people I would have a problem.
I work with most of these new people. And although they are good people and I like them, they really piss me off sometimes.
I dunno what the fuck im trying to say in this post anymore. lol.
