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Originally Posted by Mademoiselle Rouge
I would be interested to see Bbucko's outlook on this. |
I think my opinion on this topic should be quite clear to anyone who has followed my posts closely, especially those on abortion.
I have a sister who is ten years younger than I who is extremely developmentally disabled. She will never write her name, though she does have a vocabulary of about fifteen sight-words which she can read and understands (danger, warning, poison, etc).
Until the doctors committed to her care finally hit on the right mix of medications about twenty years ago, Sherry was extremely self-abusive: she has suffered a concussion from banging her head and has at various times pulled out most of her hair. With her medications, she's rather dopey but at least no longer self-destructive (most of the time), although she remains highly volatile.
According to the latest judgments by the professionals who track her progress, Sherry is kind of a mixed bag. Verbally, she communicates on the level of a 4-5 year-old, but with obvious impediments and a tendency to discuss things no one else can see, but which seem to obvious and visible to her. This might be a game for her, or she might well be psychotic, no one is sure.
Emotionally, she has matured a great deal over the years, and is capable of expressing her emotions with a reasonable degree of clarity. And most (but by no means all) of her emotions seem to be legitimate responses to real events going on in her life.
Sherry is incredibly intuitive and reads people like a book. She has an uncanny ability to sense precisely how to disturb someone and delights in demonstrating this skill to the unsuspecting or wary in the most provocative way possible. Other times, she is sweet and loving (though rarely physically affectionate) and is very grateful for attention and gifts.
She has lived in a group home in Massachusetts since she was sixteen. Originally this group home was meant to house only adolescents, but as the residents grew older (and funding got scarcer), it was decided not to move them. Sherry is the only verbal member of her group home (she's the only one who can speak at all), and as a result is something of a queen-bee there.
When Sherry was fourteen she was repeatedly sexually attacked by the driver who would take her to school, after-school activities, and back home. It wasn't until her self-abuse escalated to near-suicide that this was eventually discovered. As she was physically a teen-ager, she could easily have become pregnant, which would have become a grave tragedy.
Sherry will never be capable of being a parent on an intellectual and emotional level, and pregnancy would cause her enormous harm physically (she is tiny, like my maternal grandmother: 4'8, 100 lbs). There is no way that any responsible person would insist that she carry a baby to term. And as has been proven in her case, those responsible for her well-being may not be aware that anything's amiss until it would be too late.
Personally, I'd be in favor of having Sherry fitted with some sort of IUD. Anything injected into her skin would likely be removed by her, and I'd be highly dubious of her taking the Pill, in light of all her other meds and potential side effects. As she needs general anesthesia just for a routine trip to the dentist, I'd also be concerned about her required recovery time in the event that a more permanent solution to her birth control be required.
So no, I don't believe in forced sterilization of the developmentally disabled, but in Sherry's case, I'd wish she could have a long-term birth control option. It just seems humane.