Do You Cum Too Soon?

tinytip · 07-02-2008

I have found that no matter how much I try when I am very excited and stimulated, I cum much too quickly. That could be having sex or just masturbating. Do any of you ever get so aroused that you prematurely
cum? Be honest and give examples of when that happens to you.

basharbd · 07-02-2008

i don't usually have a problem with cumming too soon. my average is 20-30mins. but i've noticed that whenever i pop a few advils, i easily last over 1hr.

basharbd · 07-02-2008

i don't usually have a problem with cumming too soon. my average is 20-30mins. but i've noticed that whenever i pop a few advil before sex, i easily last for 1hr.

Jonathan2/11 · 07-03-2008

maybe when having sex u should try to just enjoy it and not exsite ur self and if u feel that ur going to cum slow it down and u can try edging when masterbating that also helps u last longer

New End · 07-03-2008

Spend 15 minutes making out, 15 minutes of foreplay and some oral sex, then another 10 - 20 of eating her out, and then I stick my cock in her girl-cum filled pussy and try to hold on as long as I can. Thats usually 2 or 3 minutes... aggravating, difficult minutes, where every stroke is an exercise in trying to hold back, and not just enjoying it.

goldeneye · 07-03-2008

I usually last a decent-to-great period depending on the circumstances, but if it's been a long time or I get REALLY heated up then yeah, I can blow almost immediately. That's not ALWAYS a bad thing, though! I posted here in another thread about this fuck buddy I had for a few months back in the fall who had the tiniest, shallowest, most RIDICULOUSLY tight pussy, and in all the times we fucked I don't think I ever lasted even close to five minutes, but somehow we were always happy:

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I'm about average size but last year I had an Indian Summer fling with a girl who had the tiniest vagina I've ever encountered. She was regulation size in every other way...well, excepting that she had a GIGANTIC ass (and DDs), but that's entirely acceptable...anyway, I've never heard anything in any porn as erotic as the way she'd moan and carry on when I pushed into her. I mean, I'm not even quite seven inches, and probably about an inch or an inch and a half of me couldn't even fit into her. I kinda got a sense of what a lot of guys here must feel like sometimes. I could get all the way into her if I slammed really hard, but only for that one second, then it would go back to normal. She was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO damn tight, and very, VERY appreciative--I've never been with another girl who would get so impossibly soaking wet. I mean, I would do something simple like take my pants off and she'd already be running like a faucet. Between the insane wetness, her squeezing the living HELL out of my cock, her overheated cries, and the fact that she came very quickly, I never lasted more than two or three minutes. We would get so fucking worked up and make each other so crazy that sometimes I'd bust in matter of seconds. Neither of us ever cared, though, because we had such powerful orgasms together and we both enjoyed that we made each other hot enough to cum almost immediately. Once when we hadn't been together in nearly a month, she pulled me on top of her and spent several minutes rubbing my head against her clit really hard (that drives me CRAZY!) and then suddenly grabbed my ass and pounded me into her and, on the verge of orgasmic tears, she started screaming, "Oh my god, fuck yes, oh god I missed this, oh GOD I missed this!!!" I didn't even make it anywhere NEAR 30 seconds before I flooded her. Incredible.

So yeah. I came too fast EVERY time with her, but it didn't matter because she was always satisfied. 'Course, it's rare that two people are so equally hot for each other and can both be satisfied with such a quick result.

dc9 · 07-03-2008

It all depends on the moment. But these days 30 minutes is my limit, after that, all bets are off.

enormouslyaverage · 07-03-2008

I'm lucky if I hit the 5 minute mark of sex, but I (all cockiness aside) am amazing at oral so girls/women tend to overlook the fact that I'm like a 17 year old kid when it comes to me actually fucking them.

Lucky me...?

hootie · 07-03-2008

They make creams like Mandelay to help. I've seen them advertised in magazines. I do not know if they work. For me personally, it takes a long time. Good thing I prefer quality over quantity.

Proudly_Italian · 07-04-2008

Usually I have the exactly opposite problem, it takes me too long to cum.

However it happened to me too to cum to fast, especially the first times. An immediate solution is for sure to bring your partner to orgasm: hands don't ever get limp, after all.

When I am about to cum, and i feel it is too early, I press my perineus, and slow down the thursting movements.