My wonderful girlfriend, now my wife was a celibate window lady of ten years, a very much respected around our small town. We truly loved each other and knew we were headed for marriage, but knew we couldn't hold off sex but certainly didn't want a pregnancy But as she had no birth control available , the obvious answer was to fuck with a rubber. Thank God for them, as our love making was great and so we both feel they are a wonderful device for a great love affair and still use them exclusivly.