Lots of virgins here

just ask someone?

i'm a virgin and proud of it. plus, i'm only 20, and there's not a huge rush.

but that may change when i go off to another college. ;)

lol I'm a virgin too. Haha it by choice, sometimes its hard (no pun intended) but i want to wait for something special. it does get difficult though...

i'm on my way to san diego

Personally, I'd rather not know if someone was a virgin. To me, it conveys a vast amnount of "performance anxiety" -- like you have to be amazing to make it worth the wait.

I'd rather have fun than "be amazing".

That's the hard part and (more than likely) the reason those of us with morals and a desire for more than a fling are still virgins.

I'm trying my best to get the deed done!

Hopefully the next willing female that comes along will be able to take care of it/

I like the way you work that shifter!

The only thing that's worked for me.

OK, i've writen in this thread before, more as a joke, but being serious about the subject of being VIRGIN.
why do teenagers [or older...] worrie SO much about losing it? THE first time, usualy isn't as good as it could be, that's why, afterwards, WE keep on trying to get better. :D
I think that the secret to lose ones virginity is not to think it thru. JUST let it happen, WHEN it happens. don't force anything! and SURELY it will be more pleasing and less a 'I'M GONNA BE A MAN SOON!' thing!

and JUST a personal note.. THIS is my 999th POST, so that means I'm going to lose my lpsg.org virginity and become a GOLD MEMBER! :D
I'm so HAPPY!!!!! ;)

With that said- far easier said than done.

Of course, there is something to be said about quality here- "getting laid" covers a broad spectrum of experiences.

If your goal is just to stick it in some hole for a little while, aren't too picky, and maybe want to have somebody to sleep with as you get over your hang-over- then pick up somebody at the bar or house party. Granted, the experience will probably be less than fulfilling, but hey, what can you do?

Prostitution is available but there are all kinds of risks with that one.

I dunno, my sex experience has been minimal, but it has occurred with women I genuinely liked and felt comfortable with as people- which always helps.

The only thing that bothers me is that people I know seem to think I'm getting some with regularity. Must be the attitude and the looks. I dunno.

You go out, meet a girl/women/boy/men. What do you say? What do you do? How don't you screw it up so can call her the next day or have sex that same night?

Some of you make it sound as easy as shopping for grocery but I know that when I was younger approaching girls/women had that life threatening edge to it. I got over it once I found out a few things about women in general. What did you find out that worked for you every time you got laid?

Are you suggesting your parent/s ?

Patience is a virtue

I think abstinence is overrated.