Men's Room Experience

rover86 · 06-22-2008

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Originally Posted by Texasjon

His commit to you was bold. You response was perfect.

agreed.

RookySteve1 · 06-22-2008

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Originally Posted by Big Del

Not sure if this is the right forum for this or not

Friday night I was out at a club watching some live bands

Had a few beers and JD's and Cokes and feeling mellow

Went for a piss - strange configuration of urinals on right angles in the men's room so if you were in the middle then a guy on either side was able to look almost straight on at your cock.

So I am there and a pretty tall guy comes in and starts to piss and is looking right at me and say "fuck, that is a pretty big cock you got there man" and to that I say "thanks, it is even bigger hard" then I thought "oh shit he is gonna think that is a come on" anyway it weirded me out and I didnt know what to do

Felt uneasy for the rest of the night

What should my response have been? Say nothing, laugh it off or punch his lights out? He didnt seem overly camp - he may just have been paying me a compliment. I didnt even see what he had

Anyway, just hoping someone can help me

I am fine in groups showing off or comparing, but it was odd for me in this instance

Cheers

Del

If you were in a gay club, you should've taken it as a compliment. But, a men's room in a straight club? I would think that was weird.

Here in the States, men don't usually talk to other men in men's rooms, unless they are friends.

mnguy55446 · 06-22-2008

Take it as a compliment and be done with it. ;) If he didn't respond to your comeback - which it sounds like he didn't - don't waste any more time worrying about it.

Big Del · 06-22-2008

Thanks to you all

I am certainly not homophobe or even violent in anyway - just in this case it caught me unawares and I was brooding on it over the last couple of days!

The music club (for the guy from the UK who asked) is actually in New Zealand - so it is a long way to come to see the configuration!

I will amend my details to show what I think will be a much more permanent place of residence for me going forward

So thanks again and I wont get too hung up on being hung!

Peace and Love

Del
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220483 · 06-22-2008

I've had similar problems in club bathrooms. WHY don't urinals have littles walls between them so we can pee ALONE???

OK, about your questions: first of all, was IT a gay club [or at least gay friendly] cause if it was, YOU were hiting on him HARD! :P
if not, OK, one of you should have punched each other, or at least LOL to break the ice! IT should have been a thight situation. BUT if nothing GOOD or bad happen, CHIL OUT MAN, and go on with your LIFE...

pieterjoke · 06-22-2008

Just say thanks

Big Del · 06-22-2008

No, it was just a regular music venue/bar so it was not a gay venue (although I have been to them in the past with gay friends)

If I had been at a gay bar I would definitely not have said the same thing in response!

NiceDude · 06-22-2008

He deserved a comment like that and if it wasn't meant to be homo-reotic than he should expect such a comment back, I would stick to the usual 'thank you' take a look back (good excuse) and say 'you're not doing bad yourself either' haha!

piratebulldog · 07-12-2008

Absolutely agree that the other guy was also 'feeling no pain' and under different circumstances would not acknowledge you at all. His defenses were down and he just spoke what he was thinking at the time. Didn't sounds like a comeon or a proposition. Sounded like one drunk guy complimenting another guy...and letting it go at that.

mcctguy · 07-13-2008

Face it, you liked the idea of another guy admiring your cock. & Why not?

henry miller · 07-13-2008

There was no correct response to this because it was such an odd statement in and of itself anyway.

henry miller · 07-13-2008

By the way, I had a similar experience a while ago. I met a guy in a kilt (in the US). I'd seen him before, several times. Finally, I worked up the nerve to ask what everyone wonders: does he wear anything underneath? He laughed and told me that he gets that question all the time, and that no, he doesn't.

I later told him that I shouldn't think that is weird because I don't wear underwear either. He then acted uncomfortable. Then I got uncomfortable, wondering if maybe he thought I was being sexual with him, coming on to him, etc. Ever since then, when I've seen him, I've regretted that statement. Oh well.

ItalianFlag · 07-13-2008

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Originally Posted by Monster

Does it matter, will you ever see him again?

Exactly.

Proudly_Italian · 07-15-2008

He has been ironic and provocative, you answered in an ironic and provocative way.

You sure had some courage, but I don't think it was "wrong": he got was he was looking for, commenting your cock he accepted the risk of a provocative answer.

cute5 · 07-16-2008

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Originally Posted by bek2335

Why would it even occur to you to "punch his lights out"? Even if you were sure he was coming on to you, why not just say "No, not interested". If a woman you found unattractive came on to you, would it occur to you to threaten her?

People react with violence because they feel threatened.

Men's Room Experience

Originally Posted by Texasjon His commit to you was bold. You response was perfect. agreed.