Timely post,
njqt466. From what I've seen since last November, your avatar choices show you to be a very hot, black woman who (because you have no children) is not a MILF and you're far too young to be hanging out at the cougar clubs. I hope TJ wasn't a terrible experience. It's not exactly a place where you can fall in with the men-with-yachts set. Next vacation find a way to spend a month along the Costa Brava, Barçelona, and or the Costa del Sol. A scenic woman such as yourself should have no trouble hooking up with any number of well-equipped, straight, gym-conscious Spaniards (or Brits) in their 50's who would enjoy pampering you. Who knows, you might just end up over staying your visa (no problem, you can always travel to Andorra and renew it every 60 days). It's time to put that new passport to good use.
Then again an intelligent, physically fit, attractive, straight man of 55+ seems to be a rare commodity and not just on this site but many others. 
