Guys & girls attracted to, or not exactly unattracted to, older guys.

This is a question to all the ladies, the gay guys and the bi-sexual guys, plus my own stance on the matter.

The thought of having sex with an older woman (60 years plus, for instance) is not a turn on. Even if she has kept herself fit and sexy.

Yet the idea of sucking on a 60+ cock has equal appeal to sucking the cock of a younger stud.

Those gay and bi friends that I've discussed this with all seem to agree with me.

We often see younger ladies with older male partners. Ditto within the gay community.

I can't put my finger on the cause of this (maybe it's cuz women begin as generally beautiful but gradually lose it as they age, whereas a cock is born ugly - which makes it somehow all the more stimulating to suck and play with - so ageing isn't such an issue).

Do any of you girls and guys agree?

If so, do you have any additional opinions or insights/experiences as to why?

Or do you disagree?

And if so, why?

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Sucking a 60yr old cock? Noooooooooooooooo!!!

Ageism sucks.

LexPSG. 2004-2010. What a ride.


"The hardest thing in life is to want what you have."

Denise - honey - that's not nice. When you're 60 and not getting any you can look back at that comment and feel ashamed.

Hmm STD - you've put this in more genral terms than your similar question in the Women's Issues Forum so perhaps I can try a more helpful answer.


I think it is social conditioning. I think we are regularly presented with images of men in their 50s and 60, and into their 70s, and told that they are still sexy, that it is socially acceptable to find them sexy. This is not so true of women. There are some exceptions, but precious few.

Older actors get great roles in films of all varieties, look at Harrison Ford, ffs. But it is not the same for women - most of the cast of Calendar Girls were younger than Harrison Ford doing the last Indy and yet their sexuality (and that of the real life women they protray) is seen as amusing, or at least quirky, not sexy and NOT normal.

It's a shame. Older women have just as much to offer sexually as older men and yet we're conditioned to write them off for between the sheets fun from (I would say) mid-forties up.- which is nuts, because a lot of women don't hit their sexual peak til then.

So for those of you who don't fancy an older cooch - well fuck ya - there's more fun for the guys and girls that know better.

everybody's got a price......by that I mean older men with money can buy companionship. we've all seen it, straight and gay.

I'm 56 and my cock works better that some of the other parts of my body, and doesn't look any different than it did 30 yrs ago, 'cep it's bigger.

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625girth, you rock!!

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The perceptions are likely tied to biological realities.

As women age beyond menopause, they lose the ability to produce children. Men do not.

The association to desirability probably lies somewhere in the reptilian area of our brains that instinctively fuels our basic drive to reproduce.

The cake is a lie...

And how does that have anything to do with one guy finding another guy attractive?

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Probably because the brains of gay men aren't all that dissimilar from those of straight women.

That's a bit beside my original point, though. I was referring to the instinctive sex drive itself, not how it manifests in different people.


Oh, and I just couldn't resist this!

The cake is a lie...

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Batshit insane, eh?

I can think of at least one 21-year-old that I wouldn't mind fucking six ways from Sunday...and I'm only moderately antisocial at best.

The cake is a lie...

You're talking out of your arse! There are thousands upon thousands of men over thirty who are happily boffing men or (and) women more than 10 years younger than them and the vast, VAST majority of them are perfectly sane.

Issues? Yeah, right! Grow up.

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I've dated guys that were anywhere from 16 years older to 19 years younger. Psychoanalysing me, my former or current partners is a waste of time. The only people with issues are OTHER people who think age is the issue. Period.

We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are. -Anais Nin

Exactly.

Ever notice how those most critical of other people's desires and relationships are usually never IN one themselves?

Hmmm...

LexPSG. 2004-2010. What a ride.


"The hardest thing in life is to want what you have."

I'd have sex with a 60 year old woman if she was hot.

" ...better just deal with whatever comes your way...while we speak , time is envious and is running away from us. seize the day , trusting little in the future..." - Horace (carpe deim)

"...now some of these new rappers got they caps flipped backwards with they fingers intertwined in some gang sign madness, I got an exam to see if ya pass it, let's see who can quote a Daddy Kane line the fastest..." - Nas

I think love is hard enough to find anyway. I am tickled when I see the amazing diversity of individuals who find a way to come together. I dont think I have ever dated someone my exact age. They have always been either younger (most of the time) or older.