A little too femme? Yeah... I wonder if that is what others might think. I think my overall slender build contributes to that impression as well.

As far as me being 45 and still unsure of my looks??? Yes... it has been an issue for me my whole life. I am still unable to accept my body and size. I am still insecure and hate having a thin cock.

It all makes me feel more comfortable to be a "bottom" for well hung guys. I have never had the urge to top. And even though I am mostly straight I don't feel I am masculine enough to go after women. I don't think most women are remotely interested in a guy of my stature.